jittersondate Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 i went to text my friend yesterday and actually sent it to this girl i went on a date with and am seeing tomorrow i said " do you know if it is?" she said "what" and i said "sorry hit the wrong name, that was meant for my friend" she didnt reply back do you think it pushed her away?
towardthefuture Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 you're way over thinking this. just leave it alone. if she cancels your date over something so dumb just thank your lucky stars you dodged the bullet 3
kendahke Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 OK, how in God's name can she be pushed away by something as innocuous as that? Seriously. I'm really interested in hearing this answer. 1
katiegrl Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 i went to text my friend yesterday and actually sent it to this girl i went on a date with and am seeing tomorrow i said " do you know if it is?" she said "what" and i said "sorry hit the wrong name, that was meant for my friend" she didnt reply back do you think it pushed her away? Who was this other "friend"? Another chick you're dating? If so, be careful dude! It's possible that's what she might have thought... and wasn't thrilled to learn you're seeing others in addition to her. Even though you have every right to do so, most women don't relish finding out about it in that way. Just sayin ...it's "possible* that's what she thought.
katiegrl Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 It's not a problem, don't worry about it. How do you know? Are you a mind reader? No, none of us are. OP, the only person who will know if it's a problem is HER. Like I said she may have thought that "inoccuous" text was meant for another chick. Was it? You still haven't answered... but maybe you're off line. I am a chick, and I know how "some" chicks think. So have your date tomorrow (or is it today?)...and play it out. She could be totally cool with it...
Strength in Healing Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 How do you know? Are you a mind reader? No, none of us are. OP, the only person who will know if it's a problem is HER. Like I said she may have thought that "inoccuous" text was meant for another chick. Was it? You still haven't answered... but maybe you're off line. I am a chick, and I know how "some" chicks think. I'm guessing you've personally dealt with a cheater.
katiegrl Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 I'm guessing you've personally dealt with a cheater. No I have never been cheated in...thankfully, but when I was dating, there were occasions when a guy would send me a text obviously meant for another chick he was dating. Happened a few times actually, and not to just me, many other women I know as well. Again, no problem if that's what's happening, as we were just dating, no sex yet, no exclusivity. But still...as I said most women (including myself) don't oarticularly relish being sent texts meant for another chick...just as I wouldn't think most men would relish being sent a text meant for another guy.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Its no big deal, if she bails over something this stupid she wasn't worth it. Now if you texted her "my place or yours baby?" and sent the same follow-up response, then you could kiss your date goodbye..... 1
katiegrl Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Its no big deal, if she bails over something this stupid she wasn't worth it. Now if you texted her "my place or yours baby?" and sent the same follow-up response, then you could kiss your date goodbye..... ^^ I agree the wording of the text helps him out ALOT! Might just save his ass actually, especially IF the text was meant for another chick he's dating...
losangelena Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Well, he said it was for his friend, not another girl. Let's not jump to conclusions. It was her lack of reply that had him worried. OP, I'd say you don't really have anything to worry about. What could she have said to appease you? OK? That's cool? Chances are you would have interpreted those negatively as well.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Well, he said it was for his friend, not another girl. Let's not jump to conclusions. It was her lack of reply that had him worried. OP, I'd say you don't really have anything to worry about. What could she have said to appease you? OK? That's cool? Chances are you would have interpreted those negatively as well. Yes but depending on the message sent, it wouldn't matter. If it sounds like he's talking to another girl, she'll bail probably. Any guy would say it's their "friend" even if it was meant for another girl. Fortunately his message is pretty innocent, so I think he should be OK.
katiegrl Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 (edited) Well, he said it was for his friend, not another girl. Let's not jump to conclusions. It was her lack of reply that had him worried. OP, I'd say you don't really have anything to worry about. What could she have said to appease you? OK? That's cool? Chances are you would have interpreted those negatively as well. Lol, what's he gonna say? "Oh sorry that was meant for another chick I'm dating." Come on now...seriously. However I DO acknowledge it could be innocent... but still, one never knows what goes on in the heads of some chicks...when they receive texts from a guy they're dating .... not meant for them... Edited April 2, 2015 by katiegrl
OnlyHonesty Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 I wonder what has happened to guys when they are afraid about something like this. Are you so scared a girl will leave you that you are concerned about an innocently sent wrong message? What happened? Shaking my head
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