rollercoaster11 Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Ladies how comfortable were you when using the bathroom or passing gas in front of your exs and guys how did you feel about it? It is said to be the deal breaker when it came to relationships. I on the other hand wouldn't and would hold it in the whole weekend after spending time with my ex. He use to make fun of me doing that. I couldn't wait to get home...I would be so miserable. He thought it was kinda cute but the thing about it he wouldn't use the bathroom at my house either...whats that about guys.
SoThatHappened Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 True love is when you can Dutch oven each other and laugh. Takes a while to get there though. 2
Marco Valerio Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Yeah, totally right. It's something natural, when you are comfortable and you love the other person, it shouldn't bother you such things. Love is accepting the beauty of your partner's face first time in the morning, as much of any other nasty smell, like morning breath, sweat smell, farting (only when are acceptable). That's really accepting human's nature, accepting someone defects or whatever you want to call it. 3
Author rollercoaster11 Posted April 2, 2015 Author Posted April 2, 2015 Yeah, totally right. It's something natural, when you are comfortable and you love the other person, it shouldn't bother you such things. Love is accepting the beauty of your partner's face first time in the morning, as much of any other nasty smell, like morning breath, sweat smell, farting (only when are acceptable). That's really accepting human's nature, accepting someone defects or whatever you want to call it. I was comfortable around my ex...just not that comfortable. There are some things I refuse to do. Sorry if this is a uncomfortable subject everyone but I always heard that is one way a man or woman knows that you love them....just tell me..... that would suffice just fine.
na49 Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 My ex and I would fart around each other. We'd crack up about it, and I told her that's how I knew we had "made it" with our relationship. I never saw anything disgusting about it because it was with her. Now she'll be farting with some other goofball. but honestly I guess I'd expect the other person to be on guard if the relationship was new. but after I've been with them a while, I don't care if they fart, and I'd hope they wouldn't care either. Also not using the bathroom at your house is a weird one.. I never knew that was an issue.
GorillaTheater Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Maybe I was potty-trained at gunpoint, but I've never been cool about farting in front of my wife (nor her with me). Accidents happen, and usually a cause for laughs, but I'll leave the room if I feel it coming on. Call it being hung up, or call it trying to keep a little dating magic alive, but there it is. 5
NopeNah Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Maybe I was potty-trained at gunpoint, but I've never been cool about farting in front of my wife (nor her with me). Accidents happen, and usually a cause for laughs, but I'll leave the room if I feel it coming on. Call it being hung up, or call it trying to keep a little dating magic alive, but there it is. I'm actually the same. I'll 'gauge it'...silent feeling=good to go..Not sure=I'll leave the room. 1
Poppyolive Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 I never farted in front of my ex. But once, I let one slip, while he was in the other room. He caming running in to make fun of me. For years, he'd bring it up. Him on the other hand, would proudly fart. His silent ones were deadly. I don't even fart around friends. Nobody wants to inhale **** smelling gases.
Michelle ma Belle Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 I think there is a difference between "Pull my finger!!" and "Excuse me". Being comfortable and accepting of each other's bodily functions should be the absolute norm in any happy and healthy relationship. At the same time, sometimes men seem to have a harder time than women knowing when enough is enough with the farts-for-fun activities. And that can get old really quick. 3
Michelle ma Belle Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 Maybe I was potty-trained at gunpoint, but I've never been cool about farting in front of my wife (nor her with me). Accidents happen, and usually a cause for laughs, but I'll leave the room if I feel it coming on. Call it being hung up, or call it trying to keep a little dating magic alive, but there it is. I had a laugh-out-loud moment reading that!! Thanks GT 1
Author rollercoaster11 Posted April 2, 2015 Author Posted April 2, 2015 Maybe I was potty-trained at gunpoint, but I've never been cool about farting in front of my wife (nor her with me). Accidents happen, and usually a cause for laughs, but I'll leave the room if I feel it coming on. Call it being hung up, or call it trying to keep a little dating magic alive, but there it is. I agree...it just was never something I thought was lady like. I guess I must be hung up too.
Itspointless Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 True love is when you can Dutch oven each other and laugh. Takes a while to get there though. 'Dutch oven'? What did we do to deserve a saying like this? 4
GorillaTheater Posted April 2, 2015 Posted April 2, 2015 'Dutch oven'? What did we do to deserve a saying like this? Dutch uncle, dutch treat, going dutch ... You all must be some seriously bad folks. 4
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 After not being on this forum for quite some time and coming back to a thread like this... For the subject matter: get through the honeymoon phase and just let it rip. It's the champagne of victory. 1
darkbloom Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 My ex and I had no problem admitting that we were going to the bathroom when we together. He had no problems discussing it, but we never went to the bathroom together. And I have farted in bed with him and he with me. I didn't think too much of it as everybody does it. 1
SoThatHappened Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 Dutch uncle, dutch treat, going dutch ... You all must be some seriously bad folks. Don't forget Goldmember... 1
Author rollercoaster11 Posted April 3, 2015 Author Posted April 3, 2015 After not being on this forum for quite some time and coming back to a thread like this... For the subject matter: get through the honeymoon phase and just let it rip. It's the champagne of victory. Omg...what a way to come back...LS has gone to the dogs....lol. Explanation...I recently heard someone talking about this subject and my ex would too so I just wanted people opinions about it. It really bothered my ex that I wasn't that comfortable doing that around him...hence my title.
Marco Valerio Posted April 3, 2015 Posted April 3, 2015 Is not that important, and it's no a deal breaker either. People sometimes smell ugly and other times nice, sometimes they fart or they have a bad breath. The thing is not letting it become a daily issue. Always be clean and respect your partner in that sense too. If you are not a pig, then it's ok. There are things much more important in a relationship to worry about. 3
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 Omg...what a way to come back...LS has gone to the dogs....lol. Explanation...I recently heard someone talking about this subject and my ex would too so I just wanted people opinions about it. It really bothered my ex that I wasn't that comfortable doing that around him...hence my title. Sounds like he was using that as a way to gauge your comfort and probably saw it as a way of taking a step forward in the relationship. Like others have stated, it's not really that big of a deal. If anything it will provide a few comedic moments. But it all comes down to you and your boundaries. If you're not that comfortable then don't, simple as that. And don't hang up on this too much, I highly doubt the relationship ended because you wouldn't fart in front of him (although that is hilarious to think about).
Author rollercoaster11 Posted April 4, 2015 Author Posted April 4, 2015 Sounds like he was using that as a way to gauge your comfort and probably saw it as a way of taking a step forward in the relationship. Like others have stated, it's not really that big of a deal. If anything it will provide a few comedic moments. But it all comes down to you and your boundaries. If you're not that comfortable then don't, simple as that. And don't hang up on this too much, I highly doubt the relationship ended because you wouldn't fart in front of him (although that is hilarious to think about). Hilarious!!!...I know. I looked up some of your earlier posts and wanted to know what happened with you and the produce stand girl...I was rooting for you.
aMguilts Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 like most agree. its no big deal wouldn't recommend putting both knees in the air - legs apart and putting a flame to it as you let rip thou but then again....... aM
No Limit Posted April 4, 2015 Posted April 4, 2015 It wouldn't be a dealbreaker for me but I'd never fart when someone's around. I can hold everything in for a good couple of hours so I always make it to a toilet before things get too uncomfortable.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 Hilarious!!!...I know. I looked up some of your earlier posts and wanted to know what happened with you and the produce stand girl...I was rooting for you. For being a sucker for blondes with blue eyes... absolutely NOTHING that would be considered genuinely embarrassing like freezing up because the anxiety she would cause me. Fast forward to spring of last year. We ran into each other at the farm stand, where she no longer works. She dyed her hair brown for whatever reason, so while still very attractive, I'm no sucker to her. I probably sound like an ass but I just didn't feel the desire to pursue her anymore. We talked for like 20 to 25 minutes and haven't seen each other since. Send me a PM for any other questions so we don't shoot this thread completely off-topic.
SoThatHappened Posted April 5, 2015 Posted April 5, 2015 like most agree. its no big deal wouldn't recommend putting both knees in the air - legs apart and putting a flame to it as you let rip thou but then again....... aM I did this with my long term gf because she didn't believe me when I said they're flammable. She laughed so hard that she cried after I showed her.
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