moimeme Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 Please tell me why it is better to be emotionally involved with a MM then not? Im confused as to why its okay to have an affair if its emotional and not if its just for sex . Huh? I never said anything of the kind. It is not all right to be involved with a MM in any way, shape, or form. Period. However, if you had read my post, you'd see it was not you I quoted. You said you weren't planning to continue so fine. Another poster then chimed in and it was to her I replied.
Author PattyCakes Posted April 20, 2005 Author Posted April 20, 2005 I totally agree. That is one of the reasons i have not responded to this man in the last couple of weeks. I would not want to hurt his wife. She has had to deal with a lot with him. But then again, she has allowed herself to be manipulated and used as 2nd best for a number of years while he played the field. That is a whole other issue dealing with self respect and self love.
Author PattyCakes Posted April 20, 2005 Author Posted April 20, 2005 I think it is very easy to misunderstand postings online. I think this happens a lot. Please excuse my mistake.
Miffy Posted April 20, 2005 Posted April 20, 2005 Pattycakes, just a quick note to say hi to you. I have been posting in various forums since Sept last year and there sure are some strong personalities on here! Bear with it, you get used to it after a while and if you search on peoples user names for previous postings, quite often you can read a little of their history and it makes sense in most cases why people answer the way they do!
Author PattyCakes Posted April 21, 2005 Author Posted April 21, 2005 I understand that for many people this thread is a sore spot. For personal reasons of their own. So I try hard not to judge the responses. Many as I started to read I didnt finish . I came here looking for an listening ear not a moral lesson. Never the less I received Several private msgs that were helpful and understanding. Even if they didnt agree they were kind in their responses and those are the ones that helped me see that this situation was not for the best. The angry posters, although I understand, really did nothing to help.
SixthSt.Girl Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 Originally posted by moimeme Huh? I never said anything of the kind. It is not all right to be involved with a MM in any way, shape, or form. Period. However, if you had read my post, you'd see it was not you I quoted. You said you weren't planning to continue so fine. Another poster then chimed in and it was to her I replied. Moimeme, I wasn't going to respond to you, but your attitude is too much - you are not God or a higher power, I gather, so it is purely your opinion only that being involved with a MM is wrong. You don't create the belief system for everyone in the world. You and some other posters here may think that you're God, and judge, even use namecalling to try to prove your "points." I personally feel that wishing bad things for someone else, or "karma," makes adultery look like child's play, but that's just me. Fortunately, you're not God, and I doubt God is on your side right now, moimeme, so your ill wishes don't mean squat to me. Look at your own words - are you not spinning karma of your own, by your definition? Just to let you know. You can be all holier than thou, and think shedding your infinite wisdom puts you closer to God, though it's me, PattyCakes and other posters who, by not stooping to your level, are rising above. I make my own set of rules to play by, and if that bothers you, then you will have to deal. It doesn't bother me what fellow humans, fellow sinners, think of my morals because they have no power over my life or eternity. Just to let you know, for future reference.
HoldOn Posted April 21, 2005 Posted April 21, 2005 I personally feel that wishing bad things for someone else, or "karma," makes adultery look like child's play, but that's just me. Wishing bad things to happen is WORSE than doing bad things to people???
overseas2004 Posted May 4, 2005 Posted May 4, 2005 My intent is not to be mean, just honest. I find your situation to be the saddest out of the three.
Author PattyCakes Posted May 16, 2005 Author Posted May 16, 2005 No contact, tis a good thing. Life is good.
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