theseaofred1982 Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 She's going through divorce when we decided to be fwb. Both of us caught feelings but given her situation she's not in the position to start a relationship. I knew what I was getting myself into. Everything was going so well when she decided to cut me off. She never went back to her husband nor is she seeing anyone. I went in NC mode and 3 weeks later our mutual friend mentioned to me that she misses me. I don't really know what to think of this, but I'm not going to chase her. I liked her a lot but I have mmy options of women. If the timing was better I know we would make an awesome couple. So what's my next move? Like I said, I'm not chasing. She left without a word. If she truly wants me she needs to show me. Right?
purplesorrow Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 You said you don't want to chase her. Give her time to sort herself out. If she feels the way you do perhaps she will contact you in the future. Until then, your move is to go on about your life. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 If you want to FWB your way into her panties, then sure, break the NC rule. If you want a relationship, continue NC.
Buddhist Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 Well since you have your options of women and that seems to take precedence over the fact that this one could make an awesome couple with you, I suggest you take your options instead.
Chasing_mya Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 There is no next move. You continue on with your life like you have been. Why should anything change? Because a friend mentioned that she misses you? She can miss you but still want to be single and continue doing her. If she really wanted to get in contact with you, I'm sure she knows how to find you. No need to over think it. You said you have many options available so enjoy yourself and what will be, will be. 1
Author theseaofred1982 Posted April 2, 2015 Author Posted April 2, 2015 While I do have other options the connection we had is hard to forget. She texted me last night. "Hi, how are you? Hope you're doing well." I never responded. Today at work she said she texted me last night, but I completely changed the subject. Was that a smart move? I honestly don't even know if nc rule can be applied to my situation since we see each other at work from time to time and we do greet each other.
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