frigginlost Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 Brief rundown: 2 year relationship. *Ex cheated. *I forgave. *4 months ago, Ex went on date with a "friend" she went on few dates with before our relationship behind my back. *Ex dumped me 1 week later. *Ex returned one month later claiming "no future with him" *Told Ex to get bent *Ex ran back to the guy I had blocked her on everything with the exception of one. Went to block her, and took a quick peek. Posts about opening her heart again to him, being thankful for him, etc. She used to post the exact stuff about me. Well, that friggin' sucked. Doing okay, but that crap hurts! Won't be doing that again. Ugh.
Strength in Healing Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 Preaching to the choir. So many studies in psychology about how it is deteriorating communication as a culture. It's a large detriment. And not to mention, many people will attention seek on it to achieve attention to fill a void, which is just... pathetic. No thanks. Don't get me started on the fact law enforcement monitors your profiles, and so do employers. It's not worth the risk. Never will be. Lame. 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 Watch the movie 'Term and Conditions May Apply' Will open your eyes to how deep this crud really runs. It's on Netflix...
Price2Play Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 Sad toxic people I tell you! Run for the hills and be greatful she left!
ZiggyZoo Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 I couldn't believe how much just looking at whatever was publicly posted on my ex's FB profile was setting me back, until I stopped doing it. When I caught myself trying to figure out what he meant by changing his profile picture to THAT picture, and trying to see if he had met someone else based on whether or not he had any new friends, I called it quits entirely. Way too easy to read something into the tiniest bit of nothing. And after I did that, I went from thinking about him maybe 75% of the time to almost not at all. I'm making it part of my standard NC, avoiding social media altogether.
PegNosePete Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 Went to block her, and took a quick peek. Then it is not social media that is the devil. It's you that has no willpower. Facebook is not to blame for you checking up on her. Own your actions, don't blame the tool. 2
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