Sam23 Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 How do you know if your ex is trying to get your attention via social media or you are just reading too much into it?
jen1447 Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 How do you know if your ex is trying to get your attention via social media or you are just reading too much into it? Did she come to you, or did you go digging?
Smokeshow Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 If she wanted to get your attention your ex would call you, anything other than that is looking in to things too much or just trying to manipulate things which is your key to cut all contact
Author Sam23 Posted March 31, 2015 Author Posted March 31, 2015 Did she come to you, or did you go digging? I updated info about me, then there's been a significant influx of status updates and posts online. I Just didn't know if it was to get my attention because he's never that active. The other reply is right about them reaching out if there's interest, but we've all done passive aggressive things to get ex's attention. Idk....
Smokeshow Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 I updated info about me, then there's been a significant influx of status updates and posts online. I Just didn't know if it was to get my attention because he's never that active. The other reply is right about them reaching out if there's interest, but we've all done passive aggressive things to get ex's attention. Idk.... If you want to play those games with him and be stuck wondering what they mean go ahead but if that is what he's doing he obviously doesn't have the balls to contact you directly. That should show you his true colours
jen1447 Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 I updated info about me, then there's been a significant influx of status updates and posts online. I Just didn't know if it was to get my attention because he's never that active. The other reply is right about them reaching out if there's interest, but we've all done passive aggressive things to get ex's attention. Idk.... Most people can't play it very cool if they're trying to "send a message" and end up being very overt, so if this seems really benign, it probably is. If he was trying to get thru to you, you'd pretty much know it.
Ruby65 Posted April 1, 2015 Posted April 1, 2015 The other reply is right about them reaching out if there's interest, but we've all done passive aggressive things to get ex's attention. Idk.... If someone wants you back, they contact you directly and very soon make it known. You won't have to guess or wonder or do any work at all to make it happen. If someone wants to toy with you out of boredom or loneliness -- most likely looking for a quick ego stroke -- they'll send ambivalent signals like posting updates that may or may not be about you. This is actually delaying your healing! You should be blocking your ex and all mutual friends from all online sites and apps.
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