My lover Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 (edited) Please help. I'm single and get sexually frustrated. I can't believe I just said that. I think women get the same. Especially when the weathers nice. Their are lots of FIT girls wearing little as possible. What is the best way to approach a woman? I find attractive. And start a conversation through small talk. Without coming over to strong and creepy. How would you close the deal? by either giving her my number, asking for hers or swapping numbers. How do I know if a woman is hitting on me?. Edited March 30, 2015 by My lover More information
Strength in Healing Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 (edited) Sometimes, you have to get creative. This means... stretching the truth. With fun stories is the best way. Here's an example. You're at the grocery store and see a girl you find attractive. Look at what's right around her (I.e. paper towels) and then approach her and smile and say "Ok, I'm about to give up, where can I find paper towels?" Typically she laughs and points to the fact they're right in front of both of you. Great funny ice breaker. Or let's assume instead she herself didn't notice them behind her. You just light up and say "err they're right behind you, actually. Wow, that's totally embarrassing." Then the next step, regardless of which of the above scenarios happen, is you smile again and say "You know what, it's because you're beautiful. I couldn't even focus. That's my story and I'm sticking to that one! Anyways, I'm (name)." Many other techniques I've used lol but remember, a lot of times what separates whether a girl sees your actions as creepy or not is simply how attracted to you they are. But that stuff is smooth either way, as long as you aren't awkward about it. You gotta smile and laugh a bit, can't take it all so serious. If you aren't a confident person, then work on broadcasting confidence. 10 years ago when I was a different person, what helped me a lot was pretending I was playing a movie role. I would pretend I was playing the part of a very confident guy. Somewhere along the 10 years, I became him. And then some (for better or worse lol) Edited March 30, 2015 by Strength in Healing
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