guild11 Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Hey guys, I been working in the same place for about a year now, I dont what the hell happend but I think I'm in love with my supervisor... how do I help myself ? We work as a small group so I get to see her almost every day, I wake up and think about her, every thought about work makes me think of her... How do I "block" stuff that isnt job related?
preraph Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 I've had to work with someone I had history and was in love with and ignore it before. It takes a whole lot of self-discipline. All I can tell you is it's easier when you have not been involved than when you have and had a bad breakup but feelings remain. Best long-term solution is try extra hard to find another girlfriend who is not at work!
d0nnivain Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 You enjoy the fantasy but tell yourself over & over that she is off limits.
Erin05 Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 Conflict of interest even if she felt the same way. Keep your feelings concealed and just do your job. The crush will fade with time. Only talk to her when it is necessary for work.
Author guild11 Posted March 31, 2015 Author Posted March 31, 2015 Conflict of interest even if she felt the same way. Keep your feelings concealed and just do your job. The crush will fade with time. Only talk to her when it is necessary for work. The problem is that there isnt a "distance" between us, we are more like friends than coworkers, I try to have only work related talks her but then she says im too quiet or would friendly punch me she also said that she considers me as her annoying little brother (( I'm 25 and she is 27 Kinda upsetting situation.
preraph Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 Well, she's got you in the "little brother" zone, so no hope for you there at all. So you may as well accept that and try to just get over it.
Author guild11 Posted March 31, 2015 Author Posted March 31, 2015 Well, she's got you in the "little brother" zone, so no hope for you there at all. So you may as well accept that and try to just get over it. Yep pretty much
Author guild11 Posted April 15, 2015 Author Posted April 15, 2015 So... I couldn't hold myself and I called her out... We talking a bit after a shift together and on the way home I wrote her me - Hey, what are your plans for Friday ? she - I don't know, why ? me - lets go out she - I spend the weekend with my mom(came to visit), I work the whole week so its only our free time together I said ok and that's it, now why wouldn't she just say no ? it might sound stupid but I was hoping for a straight rejection, at the moment the whole situation feels blurred
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