Augustus64 Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 So i've been talking to this girl for the past month. this mini relationship has blossomed quickly in the past month to the point where she regularly jokes about wanting my last name. She even sent me a pic of a time she wrote it in her work sheet. The connection that we had during this time is completely new to me. our conversations flow like the nile river, she says something witty and i volley back something good bask too. we talk sex in a very fun open way; she has even sent me nude pics. in summation we have both agreed that we are kindred, but on more than one occasion she has told me that she needs to work on being less fickle. she has told me that in the past it has been easy for her to flip the switch on a guy and not speak to him again (context) today we had a bit of a spat when i mentioned that i cant wait to move to the west coast, where she said "i think the idea of us being together is sweet but not very realistic" then i said that i hated the word realistic and basically iterated something along the lines that what she works in could be found where i want to move. i got a little ticked off that she was able to distance herself from me so quickly so i changed my stance and said maybe shes right its best we say our goodbyes now to avoid having to say them later. we did that was 4 hours ago. havent heard from her since and im use to txting our something w her every hr. was it not as serious as i thought? should i just let her go? whats the right thing?
Karin2rinkashi Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 So i've been talking to this girl for the past month. this mini relationship has blossomed quickly in the past month to the point where she regularly jokes about wanting my last name. She even sent me a pic of a time she wrote it in her work sheet. The connection that we had during this time is completely new to me. our conversations flow like the nile river, she says something witty and i volley back something good bask too. we talk sex in a very fun open way; she has even sent me nude pics. in summation we have both agreed that we are kindred, but on more than one occasion she has told me that she needs to work on being less fickle. she has told me that in the past it has been easy for her to flip the switch on a guy and not speak to him again (context) today we had a bit of a spat when i mentioned that i cant wait to move to the west coast, where she said "i think the idea of us being together is sweet but not very realistic" then i said that i hated the word realistic and basically iterated something along the lines that what she works in could be found where i want to move. i got a little ticked off that she was able to distance herself from me so quickly so i changed my stance and said maybe shes right its best we say our goodbyes now to avoid having to say them later. we did that was 4 hours ago. havent heard from her since and im use to txting our something w her every hr. was it not as serious as i thought? should i just let her go? whats the right thing? It has only been a month Dude. I know time does not matter in these things but cut your losses now. She sounds like a volatile person when it comes to emotions. YOU DON'T WANT TO GO THROUGH A HEART BREAK! i promise you that... that **** hurts... And this sounds like a break up waiting to happen. Even if you lived in the same damn place for the rest of your lives, i would say just sail clear of this one. You can find someone better..... in terms of her emotional state. You DON'T want that switch flipped 10 years into this (If it gets there) Why do humans like to play risky(me included), i will never understand? The funny things is that it is SO clear from 3rd perspective ( mine), but i am sure i would be confused as **** as you are too, if i were you. Weird!
sagamore Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 1. An online relationship is not the same as a real relationship. Unless you're a video game character 2. A long-distance, online relationship is even less of a real relationship. You're going to move to each other based upon what, some texts? A couple of nude photos? Not happening. You don't know her at all. 3. Someone who jokes about taking your last name and then turns around to say that being together isn't realistic (she's right) isn't a stable relationship partner. Three strikes, and this "relationship" is out! Cut bait and find someone closer to you.
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