Author edgygirl Posted March 31, 2015 Author Posted March 31, 2015 Guys guys - I didn't say every man raised by women are gay or the opposite! Again - I just wanted to give some background on him so you had the complete picture. I don't think I ever went on a date with a guy like this, so wanted to get some advice. I just hope he's not one of the gay man who wants a traditional family and is in the closet.
loveweary11 Posted March 31, 2015 Posted March 31, 2015 Guys guys - I didn't say every man raised by women are gay or the opposite! Again - I just wanted to give some background on him so you had the complete picture. I don't think I ever went on a date with a guy like this, so wanted to get some advice. I just hope he's not one of the gay man who wants a traditional family and is in the closet. No no... you're all good. It was a lot of the responses.
Author edgygirl Posted April 1, 2015 Author Posted April 1, 2015 Phew Great didn't mean to offend anyone! No no... you're all good. It was a lot of the responses.
loverboy69 Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 (edited) a) Men literally repulse me in every way. b) So very, very straight without a hint of being gay. c) I don't even like men as friends. d) I have had girlfriends back to back since high school e) Married for 12 years. f) I'm afraid of literally nothing. g) I build things, wire up electricity, can fix literally anything from plumbing to a car. h) I sail to extremely remote locations. i) Right now, I have half a dozen 20-25 year old girls I'm seeing on and off. I'm 40. I'm like you except for a, b, c and i. Yes I do sail too and was married to a woman. And I like hardcore punk/rock. Not into that Barbra Streisand stuff. Your perspective is different than most straight men I encounter though. My straight friends actually prefer platonic friendships with other dudes. My best friend in the world was raised by his older sister too. He's straight as an arrow as far as I'm concerned. Men are men. Some are more femme than others. Most are pigs. Edited April 7, 2015 by loverboy69
gaius Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 I told him. He started cursing. "This is why these beautiful, beautiful women talk to me about everything! I get so many cuties and we'll flirt back and forth and I think I am about to close the deal and it just does not happen. They think I am [effing] gay!" He's super femme, he gets so many cuties talking to him and he never closes the deal with any of them, but he's not gay! I was raised by my mom and grandmother pretty much yet I still found masculine role models. At school, on TV, on the radio even. Again, if a guy's acting femme he's trying to tell people something.
gaius Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 I was just actually hearing a story recently about a super femme guy who's engaged to a woman that lives overseas. And I guess he spent something like 4 grand in airfare to fly himself and his mother to see her. And he didn't even have sex with her while he was there. The woman he's so into that he wants to marry. After not seeing her for months on end. That's really how deep the psychosis goes with some of these guys. I mean, maybe I'd believe it wasn't the case if even one if these stories didn't end with impotence on the guys part or some bizarre behavior like I described above but they don't. All end up the same way.
road Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 Oh he's def not weak or unmotivated. He has 4 degrees, including MBA and Law degrees, one of them from an Ivy League. I never seen someone with so many degrees lol. Now I am thinking he just wanted to come across as warm as he's very rational. Having degrees is not being strong or manly. It is that he's book smart and can afford all that college.
road Posted April 7, 2015 Posted April 7, 2015 One of my husband's friends is as you describe. I thought he was gay actually. My husband wasn't sure, but he knew the guy for a long time and didn't want to know or ask. So, of course I did. He was shocked. He was all like, "what? You thought I was gay? Why?" I told him. He started cursing. "This is why these beautiful, beautiful women talk to me about everything! I get so many cuties and we'll flirt back and forth and I think I am about to close the deal and it just does not happen. They think I am [effing] gay!" He doesn't have an issue with homosexuals or homosexuality. He just isn't. So, um, I told him how to close the deal and he's already been hooking up with chicks. Except he got really stuck on this one and she really hurt him bad. Live and learn. He'll be fine LOL. So how should us men close the deal? Just asking for general scientific knowledge.
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