jackman0612 Posted March 29, 2015 Posted March 29, 2015 Should a guy always call the girl first? How many calls should the guy make before expecting the girl to start initiating the calls as well? Or should it not even be like that and both should be calling each other from start..
h0000 Posted March 29, 2015 Posted March 29, 2015 I really don't get this type of question...if you want to call, call. What's the point asking really
DoesntGetIt Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 How should it be? That it is equal and both sides should expect to call first. How is it in reality? There are still a lot of women that expect the guy to make the first move. I found out on a date this past week that if I hadn't been the one to make a move and initiate everything, she wouldn't have even though she was very interested. Surprising to keep hearing that in this day and age.
devilish innocent Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Should a guy always call the girl first? If he's interested, then he should call. But that doesn't mean a girl can't call if she's interested. How many calls should the guy make before expecting the girl to start initiating the calls as well? Or should it not even be like that and both should be calling each other from start.. The second. Not that people need to keep track of who called who last, but it also shouldn't be completely one-sided. There are some girls who expect the guy to do all of the chasing at the start. To me, that seems like game playing. If a girl is that insecure, then maybe you're better off without her.
amaysngrace Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Of course the guy should call first. I'm not sure why but it's just better that way.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 I used to follow Corey Wayne's advice. You plan dates, and let her reach out most of the time if she wants to talk. If she does, you respond later, exchange a few and get off the phone. But here's the problem. When a woman feels ignored, she over compensates by blowing up your phone. So you're essentially training her to be a clingy stalker. I've found now that by initiating selectively (with space) it lets her miss me and trains her to respect my space. Since she knows I'll be in touch once and awhile, she doesn't feel the need to be clingy. I'll call the day after a date to plan the next one (5-10 mins). Then send a quick text 2-3 days later the day before the date. Exchange a few to touch base (gets her excited) and then back to my day. She might send a text once in awhile, but it's usually me. However ,it's so nice to be with a woman that isn't blowing up my phone all day with innocuous small talk.
DoesntGetIt Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Of course the guy should call first. I'm not sure why but it's just better that way. I would like to respond to this by saying, any woman who takes initiative with me immediately becomes more attractive. Where as one that makes it clear I am going to have to take the lead and make things happen, becomes less interesting. Doesn't mean it is a deal breaker, but in this day and age I'd like to see more women making the move.
Hawaii51 Posted March 30, 2015 Posted March 30, 2015 Should a guy always call the girl first? How many calls should the guy make before expecting the girl to start initiating the calls as well? Or should it not even be like that and both should be calling each other from start.. Yes. 6. Maybe.
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