almost every white young man I know is with an asian woman

[tuxedo cat]

never mind

Edited March 29, 2015 by tuxedo cat

[Buddhist]

I'm a white female, all my partners except 1 have been Asian men. If a white guy likes an Asian girl, well good luck to them, I wish them the best. People are allowed to like what they like. I will tell you though that dating a non-westernised Asian person, as a caucasian, is hard work. You have to learn a new language and a new culture.

 

Not one Asian woman ever expressed bitterness about me dating an Asian male. Their normal reaction was....why? They know how difficult Asian men can be (depending on their culture). Get used to the fact that people are dating interracially and cross culturally these days. We live in a global society. Why are you threatened by Asian women? They are not 'taking your men' those men are choosing mates they prefer for whatever reason.

 

The man for you is clearly not those men because they are your exes. So what do you have to fear from people choosing their preference. I take umbrage at your description of someone who dates an Asian person as being a fetishist. This is not always the case, why wouldn't an Asian woman be appealing to a caucasian man? Or a white female appealing to an Asian male?

 

White men may choose Asian women who are not all that prized by Asian men, that is because what they find personally attractive an Asian male may not. Tastes in features differ. Many caucasian men like Asian women who look very ethnic, while in their home countries looking less ethnic is prized. Is it your job to decide whether or not that Asian woman is attractive enough to date him?

 

In my country also yes I was stared at by other white people all the time for being seen in the obvious company of an Asian partner. I put it down to latent racism that still exists in the world where many people subconsciously hold imperialist views about someone's ethnic origins. Asian people are often seen tacitly as inferior. And to answer your question yes, maybe you should date an Asian male. Why not? But if you decide to do so it had better be because you want that person, not out of some bitterness about couple trends.

 

People like what's different in the world and some people really like the challenge of intercultural relationships. I personally find the physique of Asian males more attractive than males of other races. I'm just attracted to that, porcelain skin, dark, eyes and hair as well as Asian fashion all attract me. Some Asian men are very stylish and the cultural differences are quite fun.

Edited March 29, 2015 by Buddhist

[thestaircase]

OP, I'm Not a White man.

But I am an Asian woman (Chinese-American), I immigrant to USA with my family when I was little, so pretty much I grew up in the western culture.

 

And I can tell you this, NOT all Asian women are with White men. Perhaps majority are, but there minority.

I'm in the minority here. My husband is Black (African-American), and he is an awesome awesomeeeee husband too.

I know it rare seeing a Chinese wife with a Black husband. But we're out there, just rare.

Most of the time I see are Japanese girls with Black guys.

 

So Nope, not all Asian women are with White men. Well, all of my childhood friends who married to a non-Asian guy, they married to White guys though.

And Asian wife White husband is the top "Interracial marriage" here in the U.S (the majority) BUT there always those who in the "minority" like myself.

 

Since Ms. OP edit her original post, so I don't know what she asking. But I just answer it based on her post tittle.