Author HansonGirl Posted April 3, 2015 Author Posted April 3, 2015 JuneJulySeptember hit on the mark. You haven't even spoken to him one-on-one, just stalking his Instagram making wild assumptions. You're willing to give up before you even tried. You're also intimidated for some reason by the type of girls he follows online, and you are allowing it to affect your self-esteem and confidence. If he knows you in real life but you think you are invisible to him, then make yourself visible to him. Go hang out and talk to him. Just as women like a man that is confident, men also like a confident woman. Ok, I get it. But to be clear, the discussion with JuneJulySeptember in the recent comments is about JJS's stories about having dated girls like the ones this guy follows. had nothing to do with this discussion. You're right that I am willing to give up. I am not sure what you mean by saying I haven't spoken to him one-on-one? Where did I say that? Or do you mean spoken to him about this specifically? I am not going to mention this to him because that would be freaky. That's why i posted here instead! Anyways we'll see what happens.
Leigh 87 Posted April 6, 2015 Posted April 6, 2015 Women like that are fun to look at. But to be honest, they're usually not that fun to date. When I've dated women that are 9's and 10's physically, they have a tendency to be high maintenance, self involved, and boring to talk to. Also, they tend to think that their looks are enough and are very lazy in bed. The woman who knocked my socks off that's my current GF is definitely cute (7/10). But her amazing personality, communication skills, and genuine nature is what drew me in. Plus, underneath her innocent exterior, beats the heart of a freaky sexual interior. So even though she may not dress like a hot girlie girl, she's still a ten in my eyes. There is a great line in 500 Days of Summer that says - "Technically the girl of my dreams would probably have a really bodacious rack and be more into sports. But truthfully, Robin's better than the girl of my dreams. She's real.' The moral obviously being that a genuine reality will always be better than a made up fantasy. That's touching. Although I don't believe so due to bullying during my upbringing, people tend to rate me as the 7 or sometimes it's 8/10 cute girl who isn't the hottest girl in the room. My current boyfriend earns a high income, he's tall and funny. Very confident. He's an alpha albeit a very nerdy version..... He seems great so far and his exes looked like barbies in some instances....... Sadly, they didn't love him and stole from him and were usually dumb. He felt I was gorgeous at first site but intelligently, he would have surely know I'm not as " hot" as some of his exes and yet he treats me like I am the girl who knocked his socks off. I feel so desirable with him despite his colourful sexual history that has included a bevy of 9s and 10s. I believe a cute 7 can be one man's 10 in bus eyes by the end of the first or second date, if you're clicking and there is great sexual chemistry present. Although I don't believe I look as good as he tells me I do and I know whole heartedly that he's dated hotter women ( he's the type of man who vets pretty girls...), he makes me feel like he's super attracted to me. He makes me feel like his exes had nothing on me because he always compliments my best features...... Not all men need an 8 9 or 10/10 in the looks department. Furthermore, all men have types. My boyfriend has always loved Penalope Cruz. He enjoys slim but curvy women who don't necessarily have the classic button nose and who have a more unconventionaly good looking, look to them....So to him, he prefers women like me to the airbrushed perfect looking ones. He would go gaga over them I'm sure but he really digs a girl with character... My long nose is my imperfection which I am getting surgically fixed. The guy tells me I'm beautiful as I am though; that he prefers character. I would probably feel like crap if I saw pics of all the girls he's slept with and who he watches in porn. But really, men can feel magical sexual chemistry with a cute girl that can trump the spark he feels with a perfect looking woman. 1
Author HansonGirl Posted May 17, 2015 Author Posted May 17, 2015 That's touching. Although I don't believe so due to bullying during my upbringing, people tend to rate me as the 7 or sometimes it's 8/10 cute girl who isn't the hottest girl in the room. My current boyfriend earns a high income, he's tall and funny. Very confident. He's an alpha albeit a very nerdy version..... He seems great so far and his exes looked like barbies in some instances....... Sadly, they didn't love him and stole from him and were usually dumb. He felt I was gorgeous at first site but intelligently, he would have surely know I'm not as " hot" as some of his exes and yet he treats me like I am the girl who knocked his socks off. I feel so desirable with him despite his colourful sexual history that has included a bevy of 9s and 10s. I believe a cute 7 can be one man's 10 in bus eyes by the end of the first or second date, if you're clicking and there is great sexual chemistry present. Although I don't believe I look as good as he tells me I do and I know whole heartedly that he's dated hotter women ( he's the type of man who vets pretty girls...), he makes me feel like he's super attracted to me. He makes me feel like his exes had nothing on me because he always compliments my best features...... Not all men need an 8 9 or 10/10 in the looks department. Furthermore, all men have types. My boyfriend has always loved Penalope Cruz. He enjoys slim but curvy women who don't necessarily have the classic button nose and who have a more unconventionaly good looking, look to them....So to him, he prefers women like me to the airbrushed perfect looking ones. He would go gaga over them I'm sure but he really digs a girl with character... My long nose is my imperfection which I am getting surgically fixed. The guy tells me I'm beautiful as I am though; that he prefers character. I would probably feel like crap if I saw pics of all the girls he's slept with and who he watches in porn. But really, men can feel magical sexual chemistry with a cute girl that can trump the spark he feels with a perfect looking woman. Thank you Leigh, i just saw your response. I really enjoyed reading this. Thanks Here is an update for everyone: so my suspicions were confirmed recently. Someone he knows said that he does go for those kinds of girls and he can't see past a girl's looks. And this is why I HATE social media.
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