GirlDown Posted April 14, 2005 Posted April 14, 2005 Originally posted by *snuggles* ok ok... i dont "KNOW" only God "KNOWS EVERYTHING"... i can say that i trust he wouldnt do that to me, but if i found out that he was - itd definitely be over. I'd be hurting like hell... but i couldnt be with sum1 who turns around and F**Ks sum1 else. but you CAN be with someone who lies to your face about everything? why? i don't know how you can trust him about anything. he certainly hasn't earned it.t but yeah, the choice is yours to be weak and put up with his crap until he does cheat on you, if he hasn't already.
Gemini02 Posted April 14, 2005 Posted April 14, 2005 I think you posted on here just so everyone would a) feel sorry for you or b) defend him and tell you that you had nothing to worry about. You're going to defend him to the edges of the earth- you already had it made up in your mind that you weren't going to break up with him before you even posted this (believe me, I've done the same thing before- and it doesn't work!) You can go ahead and list all the "wonderful" qualities. Well if they were SO wonderful you wouldn't be posting on here in the first place. You have to make it up in your mind whether all the good stuff makes up for the bad. And then you have to live with it.
Author snuggles Posted April 14, 2005 Author Posted April 14, 2005 i posted so i can spill it all out and not bottle it up. And also to see what everyone else thinks... good to get an "outsiders point of view looking in"... and ive definitely gotten that ! thanks evry1 for ur opinions/advice etc. However in the end it is my decision... im gonna give him a second chance. If he screws up again... well... it'll be his loss not mine.
GirlDown Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Originally posted by *snuggles* i posted so i can spill it all out and not bottle it up. And also to see what everyone else thinks... good to get an "outsiders point of view looking in"... and ive definitely gotten that ! thanks evry1 for ur opinions/advice etc. However in the end it is my decision... im gonna give him a second chance. If he screws up again... well... it'll be his loss not mine. he lies about everything, i sincerely doubt this is just his 2nd chance. you must have given him a 100 to keep lying like that to you. but yes, the decision is yours. hope you make the right one. see you later, i'm sure you'll be back when he does it again.
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