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My ex and I have been broken up for close to two months now and it's been about a month and a half of NC for me. I was completely devastated at first but slowly I started getting better and I decided to work on myself and come out of it a better person. I have been going to the gym three days a week, learning new hobbies, improving my social skills, ect. More importantly I promised myself that when I found another girl I would work harder on the relationship. I've always had regrets about certain things I could have done better with my ex. I threw myself back into the dating game almost right away, even though I wasn't in the right state emotionally for that sort of thing. A couple weeks ago I ended up meeting a girl and we have hit it off really well. She is really attractive and has a wonderful personality.

 

Last night I received a text from my ex asking me the name of a restaurant I had told her about a while back. She was apparently with her best friend who she confides in and who I had met several times. I texted her back and we had a short pleasant conversation which I ended. It was such a shock to hear from her last night. I left the door open for her last time we spoke, but I had myself convinced I would never hear from her again. She was so cold and distant the last time we spoke but last night it was just like old times. Is it possible that she just really wanted to know the name of the restaurant or was she just testing the waters? Im going back to NC with her, but talking to her brought my old feelings back to the surface. I know it was far from any apology or attempt at reconciliation but I'm terrified that she wants to try things again and I will have to choose between two girls who I really like. Any advice would be helpful!

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My ex and I have been broken up for close to two months now and it's been about a month and a half of NC for me. I was completely devastated at first but slowly I started getting better and I decided to work on myself and come out of it a better person. I have been going to the gym three days a week, learning new hobbies, improving my social skills, ect. More importantly I promised myself that when I found another girl I would work harder on the relationship. I've always had regrets about certain things I could have done better with my ex. I threw myself back into the dating game almost right away, even though I wasn't in the right state emotionally for that sort of thing. A couple weeks ago I ended up meeting a girl and we have hit it off really well. She is really attractive and has a wonderful personality.

 

Last night I received a text from my ex asking me the name of a restaurant I had told her about a while back. She was apparently with her best friend who she confides in and who I had met several times. I texted her back and we had a short pleasant conversation which I ended. It was such a shock to hear from her last night. I left the door open for her last time we spoke, but I had myself convinced I would never hear from her again. She was so cold and distant the last time we spoke but last night it was just like old times. Is it possible that she just really wanted to know the name of the restaurant or was she just testing the waters? Im going back to NC with her, but talking to her brought my old feelings back to the surface. I know it was far from any apology or attempt at reconciliation but I'm terrified that she wants to try things again and I will have to choose between two girls who I really like. Any advice would be helpful!

 

Do any of your friends talk to her that could've told her you met a new girl. Maybe she is jealous...I can't see someone asking an Ex such a small question like that.

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Do any of your friends talk to her that could've told her you met a new girl. Maybe she is jealous...I can't see someone asking an Ex such a small question like that.

It's possible that she knows I have met someone but I have no way of verifying that. I know she hasn't found anyone yet so maybe you are right.

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It's possible that she knows I have met someone but I have no way of verifying that. I know she hasn't found anyone yet so maybe you are right.

 

Yeah I mean it's a little strange she texts you for something so small after you meet a new girl...but who knows...?

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Just like some get "gut feelings" of cheating,ect.. I think ex's get the same when you start moving on. I was kind of in your shoes as far as meeting a pretty,smart,successful girl after my last breakup..EXACTLY five dates in and my ex showed back up. I broke things off with the new girl and have since broken things off with the ex. Time for some alone time,for me! The 'new girl' actually reached out to me last night,but I'm not going to respond, it's not fair to her.

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