theedge Posted April 13, 2005 Posted April 13, 2005 Hey all, So what excuses has any of your mates used to avoid having sex? What are the lamest ones you have heard? Anything they do to even avoid the chance to get something started? Example they fall asleep long before normal bed time so you won't even try anything? Have any of the females had men use excuses on them? Its not common for most men to turn down sex. What excuses have you used?
Illusion24 Posted April 13, 2005 Posted April 13, 2005 Well I've made some excuses up...Oh yeah I have!! Let me see...Pretending I had the biggest headache! My period was coming (mind you probably really wasn't coming for another week) and I had really bad cramps... Oh the best one...I forgot to take my pill!!! I felt so ugly with him...
EC Posted April 13, 2005 Posted April 13, 2005 I know its wrong but I have made up a ton of excuses to get out of sex before with my ex. I mean at first the sex was ok and I thought it would get better but then it never did and him and I were not getting along so by the end of the relationship I didnt even want him to touch me... So in the morning I would already start faking a headache or stomach ache..I would drag this a little through out the day...and so then by the end of the day I would ask for a motrin and go to sleep saying "babe you knew I have had a headache/stomach ache ALL day and you have the nerve to ask me for sex? How inconsiderate" I would storm off and fall asleep quicker than quick! If not I would start it and then say no it hurts? I dont know why but it hurts you have to stop! Or I'm still swollen from last night none today. Or the most used one Babe Im really really tired from work and I just want to rest. I have never prayed for my period to come as much as I did during those days. UGH! But now I have the best sex ever with my current bf and Its been a year and I have never faked a headache or stomach ache and to this day I have never told him no!
NTB Posted April 13, 2005 Posted April 13, 2005 avoid sex? nah hasn't happened yet who would want to avoid sex
blind_otter Posted April 13, 2005 Posted April 13, 2005 I've used the period excuse. The tender bits hurt from last night excuse. Mainly though, I will just say, no I don't want to have sex.
laRubiaBonita Posted April 13, 2005 Posted April 13, 2005 i have only ONCE turned down sex with my bf of 2 yrs, b/c i actually did have a horrid head ache! and he ONCE said he was really tired and could not. But both times were true.
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