GoldenGirl2015 Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 I see a lot of people suggesting that on here on different post. What is the TRUE benefit of it if you just moved on anyway? What message does it send to the guy/girl that you choose to go NC with? I'm just curious to see other people opinions about it. Thanks.
DatingAdvise Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 (edited) A relationship has to come from both side. If she is not making the effort anymore or loses respect/interest. U make your intent clear to her. U not agree with friendship, that doesn't work for you, u want her in your arm, you adore her. If she change her mind let me now and wish her all the best in life. Say that to her. The sentence "let me no" means that you are moving on with your life and do not contacting her anymore, but you leave the door open, alway's leave the door open. BUT this means also that u never ever contact her anymore, act if she is dead basicly, never look back. 2 things can happen. 1) U never hear from her again. 2) If there is some level of romantic interest, she will reach out to you for sure. Why the no contact rule? If a woman changes the term of the relationship. You have negotiate The strongest position in life is, remove your attention and never look back. This is the only way to know if there is some level of interest. Woman will start wonder about you if they not speaking with you. If a woman is not respecting you u give her the silence threatment. Never go along with friendship, friendship is only a backup strategy for woman. If she is reaching out, do not ignore, make a date at your place. Edited March 28, 2015 by DatingAdvise
d0nnivain Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 NC isn't about sending a message. It's about healing yourself. However, pat of NC prevents you from begging & chasing a person who no long has any feelings for you. It preserves your self respect
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