jhayes Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 Just yesterday I went over to friends and his girlfriends house while my gf worked. When she got off she text she was heading home, I replied that I was over at friends and I was planning on coming over to her house in an hour. She replied bout 20 mins later saying she thought she wanted to be alone, she was moody and tired. I waited, started to wonder about if I was making her feel down, then told her that hour later. She replied that she just want3d to relax. Then she said that I could go ahead and come over. Told her I will be there within 30 mins. She texted back go ahead and stay there cuz that's where I wanted to be And that's she's fine. I was hanging out with them since it's been awhile so we caould catch up and game plan for when they move. She then started posting on Facebook things saying she feel8ng down and has alot to think about. Made me feel worse. She then said good night early before she was going to sleep. Later on she texted whatever, she's going to bed. I told her fine and good night. Then the bomb. She sid it hasn't been one tonight and text my name and said she didn't think TN is was working, then said I'm sorry. I panicky n stupidly replied don't say that and that don't make one bad night overtake all the other good times we had. Feel I want to see her before she goes to work and just see her and that we should sit down after she gets off to talk. Idk, she really is apecial, more then any other woman. Weve only been going out bout 5 weeks. And she is my friends gf sister. Any advice, I really could use some.
Twigyy Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 To get her back or not? It depends on who left the relationship, but its most likely her. She left you because of her reasons. She will only come back over time if she regrets her decision, if not its not up to you to have her back. She told you she wanted to be alone. That's it. Why are you still texting her and bothering her. She left the relationship for a reason. She is not your girlfriend anymore, why are you still stalking her, going to her place? Think about it.
d0nnivain Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 First of all you cannot have a meaningful discussion about emotions or the state of your relationship via text & FB. The attempt to do so alone dooms your relationship. Send her a small bouquet of flowers today. Tell her you hope she's feeling better & ask to talk in person. The meet her & LISTEN to what she has to say about what happened & why. Whatever she did had nothing to do with the fact that you were spending times with friends yesterday
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