Adele_Reid Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 (edited) This all started about 2-3 weeks ago. My boyfriend, Jack went onto his old Habbo (online game) account. While he was on it he met this girl called Bella. He started talking to her through Facebook and Snapchat. A few days ago I unlocked my phone and I saw a message from him to Bella saying things like "I adore you", "I have a massive crush on you" flirtatious things.. I got super jealous. I scrolled up on the messages and I saw him saying things like "I want to kiss you in the snow". Below the message there was a naked photo of Bella and under it, Jack made a reference to the song 'All hands on deck'. He sent her part of the lyrics, "All hands on deck. All in the front, all in the back. Just like that". As you can tell, the song is about sex. I asked him about the photo and he said he didn't ask for it and that he said he doesn't bother with it... He posted a thread on this site - http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/521345-how-tell-if-i-am-being-played-fool#post6231668 His post was him asking if he was getting played for a fool. Nothing about him having a girlfriend. He said stuff on it like he was talking to her and he asked "If I ever come over to Australia, I hope something can become of us. I want to know if I'm wasting my time or not". Bella replied with "You're not waiting your time ��" He also said that he hadn't been turned on more by a photo than when he received the naked photo of Bella... He knows he's been played for a fool. He said he feels like Bella will use my jealousy as an advantage to flirt with Jack so much that he'll leave me and go for her, when she doesn't even want to date him... Jack said that he's stopped talking to her as he feels like he's been played for a fool. I still feel like he's talking to her.. Still flirting... I'm a really bad person for looking through his stuff and I... I just can't help it.. I really love him and I feel as if I cannot trust him any more... What should I do? I really love Jack. We've been together since November 11th 2014. I could trust him, but now, I'm not too sure if I can... Jack and I live in Scotland and Bella lives in Australia... Someone, please. I really don't know what to do... I apologise for my terrible grammar. Edited March 28, 2015 by Adele_Reid
Buddhist Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 (edited) For goodness sake do you even need to post a thread about this? Stop making excuses for him, it's pretty obvious it doesn't take much to turn his interest now does it? His post on some random internet site just proves that he would go off with this girl given half a chance. Is there anything else you need to know? He's a young guy the chances of him acting like a complete idiot and hurting you in the process are very, very high. You hanging in there will not change this reality. Do what's best for you. Edited March 28, 2015 by Buddhist 1
elliecoffee Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 Reading both of these topics gives me the impression this is something made up by a teenager just to get attention. Jack, Bella and... Katniss? But anyway, in case I'm wrong, move on.
d0nnivain Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 I remember his thread & I was appalled at Bella's behavior. Between his actions & that thread, I would tell you your BF is done with his relationship with you. It doesn't matter that you are local & she is far away, he wants something / someone more exotic. Cut your losses & move on. Although nothing physical will come out of this OL flirtation, he's still making a fool out of you. Stop letting him & walk away.
Author Adele_Reid Posted March 28, 2015 Author Posted March 28, 2015 Reading both of these topics gives me the impression this is something made up by a teenager just to get attention. Jack, Bella and... Katniss? But anyway, in case I'm wrong, move on. Katniss? I don't know if I typed that, but if I did, I must've misspelt something..
elaine567 Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 Cut your losses & move on. Although nothing physical will come out of this OL flirtation, he's still making a fool out of you. Stop letting him & walk away. ^^^this^^^ Don't accept this rubbish from him, his heart is not with you, accept that, and move on. You deserve better. 1
catchthedrift Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 You must be naive if you think this guy loves you at all. Walk away, now.
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