minime13 Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 Simon it just sucks not being good enough for someone. I wish she would just say the sex wasn't good enough you don't make enough money you're ugly your mom dresses you funny. Anything! !!!!! How about you weren't right for each other? That's all there needs to be. It's not a matter of not being good enough. It's a matter of not being compatible (on both sides).
kasop Posted June 9, 2015 Posted June 9, 2015 My ex left without an explanation. She was confused about it to. So instead of respecting her and her decision i harrassed her for answers. This drove her nuts. The more i pulled the more she pushed away. She eventually became the ice queen she is to me now. I may have had a chance after b/u but definitely not now. Theres a point when you must stop and see what you are really doing. We are just so blinded with our emotions at the time to truley see what our actions are doing. Its hard to think straight when your heart is twisting you in every direction. But that doesnt mean its okie. Its selfish and makes you reak of desperation. Being respectful and understanding (even if you really dont understand) is the only way to deal with these aituations. Just my 2 C. Good luck =)
Author gnick Posted June 9, 2015 Author Posted June 9, 2015 That's what ultimately i did.unfortunately it took way to long to reach that point.I have a personality where I won't give up untill way past the time to give up but once I finally do I'm done
Author gnick Posted July 21, 2015 Author Posted July 21, 2015 It's been 4months of no contact. I still think about her every day but all the emotion and pining to get her to talk to me is gone. Still at some point I would like to talk to her again.maybe the end of the year.
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