SpiralOut Posted March 28, 2015 Posted March 28, 2015 (edited) What's your definition of blunt though? For me, blunt is being direct to the point of being rude. It is possible to be direct and honest, without being blunt and completely wrecking someone. Like in this case for example. Being blunt to me would be her saying "I'm not attracted to you because of how fat you are." Whereas, she could still be honest with a lighter touch and say "I'll only ever see you as a friend, and I don't want to go out with you." This isn't insulting him or diminishing him. It's just letting him know that he's friends only material. By blunt I meant direct and to the point, without the rudeness. So blunt is not the proper word. I guess I meant direct. Your nice way is still mean. The way I'm doing it making excuses after excuses , lame ones so he can get the hint without totally being insulted but being kind of obvious. His brain cells must be broken because he's not getting it. It's too obvious now, not one time out of 100 dates he asked me on have I ever went to. Damn. Its clear I'm not interested, I talk to him about other guys, I call him my buddy, I don't flirt with him. You're the one being mean. This guy is your so called friend and you're on LS talking about his brain cells being broken. There are some people who can't take a hint. Yes it's annoying, but when you meet someone like that you should be direct with them. Edited March 28, 2015 by SpiralOut
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