seanster138 Posted March 26, 2015 Posted March 26, 2015 I am a guy, and i like this girl. But she is currently dating someone long distance. We always hang out, but we mostly go out to eat. Today i offered her a ride to work, during the ride she seemed a bit upset, anyways we talked about what was bugging her. I thought to myself what could i possible do to cheer her up, so we went to star bucks (WHICH SHE LOVES) and she ordered her favorite drink on the menu. Afterwards we arrived at the work-place 10 minutes early. We sat in the car and she started tickling me, so i tickled back. Anyways she started biting me on the arm and the shoulders (playfully), she even went for my crouch during the play fight we had in the car. Anyways it was time for her to leave and she asked me "if i ever had sex in my car before?" and well paused to myself because that came out of no-where! ...and i said "no" and she said i should try it sometime then she got out and left ..... What do you gals/guys think about this?....... is this a signal.... am i missing something ??
preraph Posted March 26, 2015 Posted March 26, 2015 Well, it's a bit hard to decipher, I must say. Because normally tickling is something you do to a brother or a child, not a man you're interested in romantically. But then she had the sex in the car association with it. No way to be sure. But here's all you can do. Stop advising her on any other love interests if that is what you're doing because that will plant you firmly in the friendzone. You may already be there. Second, ask her out for a Saturday night, a real date. Say, "Let's go out Saturday. I want to take you to a movie." At the movie, do all the gentleman stuff like guide her down the aisle with your hand lightly on her back or elbow or take her hand. Snuggle up while sitting next to each other sharing popcorn, touching shoulders and knees and see if she leans in or pulls away trying to get space. That ought to tell you all you need to know. If she leans in, you can put your arm around the back of the chair for a little while and kiss her when you drop her off. Good luck!
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