xxKelly26xx Posted March 26, 2015 Posted March 26, 2015 Hi everyone..I am in need of some advice. I was with my ex for 4 years and a half. He always showered me with love and always tried to show me he loved me. I was a terrible girlfriend to him and one day we was arguing and he just upped and left. He couldn't cope with the way I was treating him..and I understand that. But after a month of breaking up I found out he met someone else. It broke my heart. I still love him and I miss him so much. I spoke to this woman and shemail said he treat her like crap and he was nasty to her.....He was never like that with me. We slept with each other a few weeks back but we just couldn't sort things out. Now I have just found out that he is talking to this other woman again. Also when me and him was together, he hardly ever drank where as since we have split up he has been drinking pretty much every single day. Why has he changed so much??
erklat Posted March 26, 2015 Posted March 26, 2015 That's his way of coping. However stop talking with his new gf immediately. I can't think of anything more clingy than that.
OneBigIdgit Posted March 26, 2015 Posted March 26, 2015 You say you treated him badly. It got bad enuff that he finally walked away. It sounds like he has built up anger issues for the breakup, the way you treated him etc. Did you really treat him badly or is this just dumping blame on yourself like most dumpees in a relationship do. If the dumper gives vague reasons for leaving then it's probably a bunch of reasons they are leaving. If they tell you I'm leaving because of cheating, drinking, etc etc then you can feel sad with a solid idea of what went wrong. Almost all of us here blame ourselves, but for the most part, it's 2 people involved and 1 chooses to opt out, Sometimes they have good reasons, sometimes they dont 1
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