Yomaxwhatyoudoing Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 My ex girlfriend is pregnant and I'm trying to find out if the baby could be mine so any info will be helpful. She had her last period on September 27th 2014. Her periods are very short around 2 days... she told me as much. On September 30th I asked her if she was off her period she told me "done since yesterday" I don't know the length of her cycle. We had unprotected sex on October 4,5,6,8,9 on one of those dates (most likely 6th or 8th) i ejaculated inside her and on October 10th she left the USA and on October 12th as far as I know she had unprotected sex with another guy. Sometime between October 20-24th she told me she missed her period. Towards the end of October/early November she went to the doctor to get some tests done because she was showing symptoms at the time like nausea, vomiting, increased urination. She got blood work done and it showed that she was pregnant. He's the one she believes to be the father of the baby. I'm hearing her due date is around July 5-15th.
No Limit Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 As soon as the baby is born you can get it DNA tested and find out for sure. I doubt the other guy will take up child support without that test anyway. Good luck I guess.
goldway90 Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 Oh boy some graphic images but oh well lol well idk what to say here only a DNA test can confirm if you are the father, i really don't know what to tell you!
badpenny Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 Unprotected sex: 3 minutes of fun, followed by 18 years of WhatthehellwasIthinking?!' You'll have to wait until the child is born, before having the DNA test, but do not be talked into taking any responsibility (financial or otherwise) until you're 100% sure.
elaine567 Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 The length of her cycle is important, but it seems she may have a short one because with a normal 28 day cycle and the start of her period being on 27th September, then the next period would have been expected on the 25th October, but by that time she already told you she was late. A short cycle means her fertility period may have been when you were having sex with her. A DNA test is definitely required.
Amy77 Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 It seems more likely to be yours going by the dates?
Author Yomaxwhatyoudoing Posted March 25, 2015 Author Posted March 25, 2015 We currently resides in different countries so getting a DNA text done after the birth of the baby will be hard.
Author Yomaxwhatyoudoing Posted March 25, 2015 Author Posted March 25, 2015 Yes the research that I've done shows anything from 22-26 days cycle means the baby's mine. But i just don't know.
Author Yomaxwhatyoudoing Posted March 25, 2015 Author Posted March 25, 2015 Using an online due date calculator it says her due date is July 4th and she's about 25 weeks pregnant, but she'll telling friends and family she's 24 weeks. I don't know if she's basing that off an ultrasound because she would be 24 weeks base from the last week we were together if the baby is mine (conception date)
badpenny Posted March 26, 2015 Posted March 26, 2015 We currently resides in different countries so getting a DNA text done after the birth of the baby will be hard. Well you'll have to let her know that until you have irrefutable proof, then you want nothing to do with it. The onus will be on her to provide the proof that you ARE the father. That's the only way she can get the father (whoever he may be) to be 'involved' with his child.
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