Amy77 Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 So a lot of dram between me and my ex the past few months, which led me to have to go NC all week due to him ignoring me then texting breadcrumbs which I would always reply to, thus ending up hurting myself in the process. He text me yesterday 3 times and to avoid an argument I ignored them all. He then text me this morning before I go to school to say "I'm removing you off everything" and now he's removed me off fb snapchat twitter etc. I should be relieved but I feel a bit upset over this, and annoyed that he would tell me. I mean I feel I must have meant nothing for him to just remove me so fast, he knows he done wrong which is why I wasn't replying but now I feel at fault. I still love him but he's all bad for me, should I text him and clear everything up and end on good terms ? He always deleted most of his other ex's/girls he's been involved with? Why?
Satu Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 No direct contact in either direction. No sending, no receiving, no replies. No indirect contact through third parties. No social media monitoring. Unfriend from everything. No 'little birds' feeding you news. Delete any messages you have and block. Voila - less pain and upset in your life. 3
whichwayisup Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 Don't text him anymore. Stop reacting and reaching out. Contacting him makes you look weak in his eyes and allows him to have power over you. 2
Author Amy77 Posted March 25, 2015 Author Posted March 25, 2015 Was telling me he was going to delete me off everything mind games or I am reading too much into it?
NC-Thomas Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 I don't see the problem, he did you a favor. Now you can move on. I actually don't understand why you remained in contact. 2
goldway90 Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 You are over-thinking here, he finally decided to move on, why he said that? it doesn't matter at this point. Look at the bright side you won't deal with his breadcrumbs anymore. Time for you to heal and move on. 1
na49 Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 There's no games or anything. He might be angry and want to get the last word in. So he tells you that he deleted your pictures for an ego boost. He sure showed you! () My ex told me that she had the guy she left me for, and his brother delete 600+ pictures of us from her Facebook after she dumped me. (and they still didn't delete them all). She didn't give me the heads up when she was doing it. She just had them do it. When I first noticed that they were gone, I was hurt, but then I realized that I deleted all of my pictures of her from my Facebook too. I didn't keep anything she gave me. I realize that we aren't together anymore. Be hurt/upset by it. but you don't really need to do anything about this. If he has done it to his other ex girlfriends then what makes you so special? I'm not trying to be mean, just saying it shouldn't surprise you if you know he's done it to other ex partners. Maybe he told them too before he did it.
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