Saw ex after over a year

[nheeya]

So u were in the dating sites too thats why u seen him there? Sometimes things are just not meant to happen. Accept it and move on, its not gonna be easy but trust me u will get there. Goodluck

[guest569]

So u were in the dating sites too thats why u seen him there? Sometimes things are just not meant to happen. Accept it and move on, its not gonna be easy but trust me u will get there. Goodluck

 

Yes I was, I've been back in the dating game since 4 months after the breakup. I've met someone awesome and i dont know where that will take me, but this feeling isn't even caused by that

 

it's just this strength and confidence in myself that has been missing for SO long. I just want people to know that, because I feel like i have struggled and dwelled a lot longer than most, too long, abnormally long. It has taken 1.5 yrs for me to see even a speck of light, but i finally have and it's such a relief.

[jen1447]

it's just this strength and confidence in myself that has been missing for SO long. I just want people to know that, because I feel like i have struggled and dwelled a lot longer than most, too long, abnormally long. It has taken 1.5 yrs for me to see even a speck of light, but i finally have and it's such a relief.

 

I love happy endings.

[guest569]

I'm hoping i dont just go back again to that place. But something i haven't been able to admit until recently is that our relationship wasn't perfect in spite of some truly perfect moments we shared (sux that he admitted this stuff during the breakup and I wouldn't see it that way), he didn't treat me right and i dont think it was meant to be. Whenever I get that sad mopey feeling of wishing for him, i just have to wake up and remember that is BS, i dont truly want him back. Maybe i just want him to want me. As my confidence lifts i no longer need approval of anyone.