elcabo Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 I posted another thread where you can get more background info, but it's not necessary.... Ok so yesterday before class began I was there early and so was this girl I like. I started by greeting her (by her name) and asking how she was... Then I asked her if she was going to do anything fun for spring break, and we briefly talked about that (she asked me the same)... But it was pretty short (5 min)... In class as usual I just said class-related stuff (hard to talk in there, pretty quiet). She left pretty quickly afterwards (doesn't have a BF btw, told me) This is my concern: I'm afraid of creating an image where I am just that guy in her class she sort of knows and talks to occasionally, to the point where it'll be weird if I ask for her #... Which is why I want to move in fast (as in tomorrow) There's also this problem: whenever I want to talk to her, some buddies (guys) come and talk to me about footbal or whatever (which interrupts)... I'm getting better at cutting them off to be able to talk more with her but don't want to make it obvious..... Can anyone tell me what you would do in this case? I really want her # by tomorrow before spring break. Ty 1
Buddhist Posted March 25, 2015 Posted March 25, 2015 Just freaking ask for her number. This is not a cryptic puzzle unless you make it into one. Time and time again I see guys posting here stating.... Oh I don't want to come off as...I'm afraid I'll be looked upon as....I don't want to be.... And then these same guys usually go on to write multiple threads about how they actively avoided the girl and wondered why nothing ever happened. It's ain't rocket science. Just ask, you'll either get it, or not. Either way, you're out of your misery and can go on and post lots of threads about how to come off right during dates. 1
Author elcabo Posted March 25, 2015 Author Posted March 25, 2015 Just freaking ask for her number. You're right I should just man up and do that. Thanks 1
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