DatingDirection Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 Situation: I met someone last summer, we went on a few dates, the person told me, they either wanting a non-serious RL with me or just a friendship with me. I said, since we both get along so well, I would like to maintain a friendship, but just that. For the past 9 months, we talk over the phone, once in a while the person will ask me to hang out, but I've been too busy, so we haven't seen each other since we decided to just be friends. The last convo we had was about taking a course together, I mentioned that if he found something interesting, tell me about it, and if I found something interesting I will tell him about it. That was weeks ago, I haven't heard from him, and I haven't contacted him because I've been so busy, I haven't had time to focus on taking a course at the moment. I also don't want to push it, just in case he may have just said, yes he's interested in taking up a course with me, just to be nice? Should I follow up with him about taking a course, or just let it be, and wait for him to come up with something?
Gaeta Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 Let it be. Sounds like he is only interested in a phone friendship. You're not waiting after him for a romantic relationship are you?
Author DatingDirection Posted March 24, 2015 Author Posted March 24, 2015 Not really, it's not like I want him to be my boyfriend right now, b/c im happy being single. But then again, I think a lot about him, and sometimes wonder how it would be if we were a couple. But then I think to myself, he may not be such a loyal boyfriend, and while I love his quarks, there are somethings that I don't like about him, so I don't wait around. though I am curious. am I making sense?
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