is she worth my time

[king1]

hey guys so I just recently started talking to this girl about 2 days ago here's the catch she's pregnant now she told me she's not with a pic father so I asked her clean and simple in the future if she meet someone else how are they going to co parent she told me that she told him if she decides to move on he's going to have to accept it..

 

My initial question to that was so you haven't decided yet you know if she was going to be with her kids father or not in her word for word was I'm not trying to be with anyone else anytime soon but whatever is supposed to happen will happen. it may not happen now or a few months from now but it will.

 

now my question as a guy is big beer even a possibility for me because the way she's making it sound is she doesn't even know what she wants I feel like she's telling me not right now but eventually she's going to move on just not at the moment.

 

then I also feel like she's telling me if I happen to get back with my kids father that's how it happens that's how it happens I don't know is it worth my time is there a chance for me or do you guys honestly think she's going to want to be with her kids father again.

 

also if she wasn't interested another thing I'm confused on is why would she even give me conversationor even flirt with me but I don't know a lot of people are telling me she's pregnant they're not together she's feeling all these two different kinds of emotions right now and I'm someone there to talk to right now to get her mind off things.

 

also as soon as the baby comes she is going to be head over heels so her kids father again which I feel isn't true but at the end of the day I don't know that's why I'm here so basicallyI feel like I'm just a phase that most pregnant women go through apparently when they are no longer with their kids father but as I said before why flirt with me in everything what's your guys advice based on what she told me I don't know thank you

[Satu]

Before anybody can give give you an opinion on whether she's worth your time, they'd need to know what your time is worth.

[Quiet Storm]

No, I don't think it's worth it. She is probably hoping her baby's father steps up once she has the baby. You can be her friend, but I wouldn't expect or pursue anything more than that.