16 days of no contact she contacted me but Im about her intentions

[cacahuete]

Hey there!

 

Thanks for this amazing website :-)

 

I post this question because Im confused to what my ex is doing and thinking. We broke up a month and half ago after she decided to go back with her ex, telling me we fell appart for the many fights and the fact that she has two kids with this man and is married to him.

 

We were together for 7 months before he saw the kids were starting to see me as their daddy, and this is mainly why he proposed to go back together with her.

 

After many weeks of asking her to try again, say sorry for my own errors and failed no contacts, I managed to go 2 weeks with no contact when she contacted me yesterday she was willing to come and visit me (10hour flight) and maybe work it out, but she was not sure since she knows women like me alot and she was afraid I had moved on. I responded a day later doing casual talk, not investing too much and I can tell she misses me and does effort making conversation, but now I saw her Viber and she has put up a pic of him with the kids... looks to me like she is confused as hell what to do, and so am I because I have no idea what her intentions are and Im not going to ask her since I dont wanna rush anything.

 

Why is she texting me writing stuff like that and at the same time acting like theyre a happy family?

[ZiggyZoo]

You're her backup plan. You have been this whole time, which is why she's still married. She's not confused, she's just dishonest. Get out of this situation and go real NC. No social media, no texts, no visits...if and when she gets a divorce and shows that she is truly available, you can revisit the possibility of a relationship. Otherwise you're always just going to be option B.

[goldway90]

"she decided to go back with her ex"

You were the rebound for her, she sure misses you but as a friend. It doesn't matter at this point, she's with him ( hint her picture of him in Viper). She's not confused don't make excuse for her, she knows what she's doing. It's for you to cut her off and move on. No more white knight.