Confusedatxmas Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 So I had a really good lunch with this girl at work i like on Friday. I had felt that she may like me for a while but was unsure. We were chatting and getting each other's attention the rest of that afternoon. She said I should go to this work event with her Monday so I said ok. Just to add she was already going with other people, including her best friend, so wasn't going to be alone if I didn't go with her. Before she left she said she may catch the train with me to it. She said take her number but then changed her mind and said no wait give me your number and I will call you Sunday to let you know if I can meet you. So I gave her my number. So yesterday she didn't call and I thought ok she is not interested in me the way I am in her, as she can't even be bothered to tell me she isn't meeting me. However I get to the event and hear from her sort of best friend that she had hurt her back and leg so wasn't gonna be at the event today. Is this a circumstance where she can be forgiven for not texting me saying she isn't going or do you guys think she is not interested in me that way and that's why she didn't call/text as I'm not important to her?
fitnessfan365 Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 1) She wanted to have lunch with you. This is never a good sign. Women see men that they're romantically interested in at night when they're off work and can spend more than a lunch hour with them. 2) She wanted you to join her on a group outing. If a woman is romantically interested in you, she wants to be alone with you. So my guess is that you're probably in the friend zone. What you need to do now is give the girl some space. Allow her to either approach you at work, or reach out to you on the phone. When she does, cut to the chase and make a definite solo date at night with her. Don't agree to have friendly lunches, don't join her on group outings, and don't become a texting buddy on the phone. 1
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