mortensorchid Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 I was/am on Tinder these days. I know, a lot of eye rolling but I thought it was something to do and results are as expected. I had connected with this one guy on Tinder, we had arranged to meet. I was at a Chipotle at a local mall waiting for him, and I was there on time. Earlier that day I sent him my cell so he could send a text message or contact in case. I never received a text. About twenty minutes after I got there, I get a message from him through the Tinder app saying that he can't make it. I asked "Why?" He said "My son was home when I got here." I said "I see." "I'm really sorry I would like to get together sometime." I texted back through Tinder "I will be waiting on reschedule." I bought a burrito and went home. Fortunately someone else called later and asked if I wanted to go out that night, I said yes and she and I went out so the night wasn't just me sitting in front of the computer licking my wounds. He sent me a message on Sunday saying "Hey what's up sorry about Friday, how about Wednesday we can get together?" I said "Alright, same time/place?" He said yes. I have heard nothing from him since that day he rescheduled. Part of me says give him another chance as he said he was sorry and had enough class to try with you again, another part of me says "forget it". What do others think?
fitnessfan365 Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 Morten, once again your killer hourglass figure is hypnotic. That pin up pose is just..DAMN. You're very right swipe worthy. But in the future, it's always best to exchange numbers and talk on the phone off site before meeting in person. Waiting until the day of to give him your actual number through Tinder probably wasn't the smartest play. Plus, it's better to find out a guy has the personality of a rock in ten minutes on the phone, than wasting time in person. Next time you want to meet a guy exchange numbers, and say that you don't meet in person without talking on the phone first. If he never calls, you save yourself a lot of time.
beach Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 He can't go out because his son dropped by? He could have told his son he planned a date. I think it's rude of him to cancel last minute. I'd be leery about Wed - he's not communicating much - but you'll know more on Wed I guess.
ascendotum Posted March 24, 2015 Posted March 24, 2015 No..the class act would have been him txting you at least 1/2 hr beforehand to let you know he was going to be a no show. He had to allow travel time so he would have known with his son dropping by that he could not make it before the time. I don't see why he couldn't tell his son he had an appointment and just shooed him off and left...unless the son is young and its a shared custody situation. Least he said sorry and rescheduled, but don't get your hopes up he's pumped with excitement to meet. Not communicating before the date I don't necessarily think is bad. He's essentially a stranger still and you can save the chit chat for the date.
Author mortensorchid Posted April 20, 2015 Author Posted April 20, 2015 Oh sorry, didn't mean to leave others hanging on this one. I said initially that I would agree to a reschedule. He texted back (through Tinder, I might add, not through my actually texting app on my phone) that he would meet me again at the same time, same place. I said "Ok, will wait to hear from you." I never heard a word from him again after that. I have no idea if he showed up or not, but I would imagine that had he showed up at the restaurant and I was not there he would have attempted to contact me. I am not depressed about this by any means, life goes on. Loser. 1
Toodaloo Posted April 20, 2015 Posted April 20, 2015 Morton don't worry. Guys like this are not worth your time. After a while you learn how to tell which ones will do this and avoid them. Its a learning process. Keep at it. There are some absolute crackers out there. We just have to find them!
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