young noble Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 Ok. i dont know what to do i mean me and this girl have been talking for a while and she says she wants to get to know me .but the thing is everytime i ask her what else she wants to know about me she says she doesnt need to know anything else. And i dont get that. But one of her friends told me that she like has a wall up against men because of her last boyfriend and i know who he is and i really dont like him.I mean i think it's because she is still hurt from that and she doesnt want me hurting her, but not sure because i would never hurt her and i have told her that.She is looking for a long relationship and her longest was 2 months and my was 5yrs and i would give her the world because she is so beautiful and smart and she is looking for the exact same things in a relationship as i am. But if anyone has any advice to help me get her to be wit me holla back.
Pocky Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 Getting to know someone doesn't mean coming up with a long list of questions and having them answer them. It's about spending time together. Sharing thoughts. Seeing how the other person behaves in different situations and with other people. It's about learning who the other person is. Take things slow and get to know her as well.
Clone Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 I fu were in a 5 year relationship u then know getting to know someone is a process and not a one night thing. Took me about 2 years to fully know my ex and i know her better then anyone and probably even better then her self at times. Anyways that will coem in time buddy, i know u know this so just take your time.
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