sensitiveguy22 Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Ok everyone here is the deal. I been with a girl who I wanted for years for about a year and a half now. I had to put a lot of work into making her mine and when I did I dove in head first. After about 4 months she moved in with me and it was great until around a month ago. I lost my mom back in Sept to suicide and have relied on my gf to hold me up, plus I planned to propose this summer. OK so back to what happen that has me here. A month ago her little brother had both his legs broken and rotated so he was unable to walk until the healed. She left for a week to go to surgery which I totally understood and offered to go with her but she said I would have to sit alone in waiting room so I should stay and work. When she came home she stayed two nights before telling me she was going to move in with her dad until her bro healed which would be around 5 or 6 weeks. I was understand in and agreed, then she moved everything including stuff that was just stored in another room so I was shocked at this. Why did she need everything for a few weeks especially since I live 5 miles or so from her dad's. A few days went by perfectly fine then she started saying she was too busy to see me and to text which I let go, then she was going to a big drinking event in another town with her mom and friend so I asked to see her before she left and she said we would see. The day came I was suppose to see her and she decided to go to bonfire with her friends and didn't even invite me. At that point I was highly upset and we fought and she asked for a break. I didn't text her for 2 days bc I was so mad especially since I had worshipped the ground she walked on and now I won't worth her time. after a week we decided to try working things out and she was excited to see me the first couple times but now I'm getting the we will see response when I ask to see her and I asked her to come to family event this weekend that means a lot to my family which loved her, and I get idk what I'm doing this weekend and "we will see" yet again. I love her but am I wasting my time trying to make things work when she can't make me a priority even after we broke up and decided to talk again?
Satu Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 It seems that she's in the process of detaching from you. If thats what she wants you will have to accept it. 1
Author sensitiveguy22 Posted March 23, 2015 Author Posted March 23, 2015 That's what I figured so I quit texting her but then she becomes highly upset with me plus tells everyone she loves me and wants to be with me and tells me she is sorry she is doing it and cried but then turns around and repeats 1
pteromom Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Two possibilities: 1 - her brother's medical ordeal has caused her to want to be very close with her family, and she needs you to just not be needy right now. or 2 - This was a convenient excuse to slip away, and she's out living it up single. You know her, so you have a good idea of which it likely is. 2
preraph Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 She hasn't had much fun lately. First she propped you up over your tragedy (very sorry, how awful!), and that had to be depressing. And then this tragedy with her brother, and yes, she was needed at home, no doubt. There, she is getting a little "time off," I imagine when someone else can help him out and is taking advantage of it and getting out and about. I really think she just got tired of dealing with only sad people and needs a break. Give her some space and next time you go out, nothing sad or depressing, just go have big fun somewhere, an amusement park or zoo or something. I can relate to her situation some because my sister was in the hospital for six months with only me to try to keep her home from getting repo'd and working two jobs and going to the hospital all the time. It is very stressful. Be glad she's blowing it out a bit. 2
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