Pinkyponypie Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Husband moved out in January. He was removed by the police after smashing our living room up. The reason he did this was because he had gone on a date with a woman on pof 10 days after we called it quits. I had abusive messages, ect for a few weeks. He didn't ask about his children. He has never paid a penny. He found somewhere to live, and would turn up at my house "to talk". Crying ect and I stood firm. He's been on so many different dates and he finds it funny to tell me. When they don't work he comes here crying he's missing me. I was stupid to allow him round this weekend. We actually had a lovely weekend. Until a woman he was messaging messaged me on Facebook to ask if I had heard from him?! Wtf. I was left upset. He left the house calling me names and saying in paranoid. And that I have mental issues. And now "he genuinely doesn't want me and wants to be with someone who makes him happy". Am I wrong to think this is all so soon?! He has anger issues, which he was supposedly getting help for but he hasn't turned up to the appointments. I'm so sick of him. My confidence is so low. He tells me the women he's dating and chatting too are his ideal women! We have been together 8 years.
pteromom Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 You deserve much much better than him! Seriously - you've said nothing good about him. He's violent, mean, cruel, and a cheater. Why are you even bothering fighting for him? Let him go. And if he hasn't asked about his children, consider that a blessing. The less contact they have with him, the better outlook for their own futures. Tell him you are done. And go to individual therapy. You need to talk through all this with someone. Your confidence is low because he's doing that on purpose. That's exactly why he is saying the other women are ideal - because he wants to keep you under his thumb, and doesn't want you to go out and date someone else and find someone who could make YOU happy. Don't let him steal your confidence. He's a jerk. 1
No Limit Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 He's just an idiot trying to keep a foot in the door. Ignore his insults; he's the one with issues, not you. 2
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