Gaeta Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 I read somewhere that women are only capable of reading something like 16% of the time when a man hits on them. I went downstairs my office building to get lunch. I am waiting by the elevator to go back up my office with my lunch in hand. There were a few people waiting there as well. This man standing next to me had his coat on, he was coming in from outside and I am only in my blouse cause I'm just going from one floor to another one. Suddenly I feel this cold wind hitting me and I shiver, the man next to me went: Oh poor you you are shivering let me give you my coat ! haha! of course I declined politely and thanked him for his kindness. (one handsome man too geeezzz ) What was I to do? <hello my name is Gaeta I am single> ?
GorillaTheater Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 He probably was hitting on you, but there's a fair chance that somebody as Old School as I am would do it without thoughts of hitting on you. Do you want him to be putting the moves on you?
Author Gaeta Posted March 23, 2015 Author Posted March 23, 2015 He probably was hitting on you, but there's a fair chance that somebody as Old School as I am would do it without thoughts of hitting on you. Do you want him to be putting the moves on you? hhmmm now that you mention old school, he was late 40s Italian (accent) business man. That's probably it, old school. It's nice to be hit on by a man like that. Last man that hit on me was a pimp lol
Redhead14 Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 I read somewhere that women are only capable of reading something like 16% of the time when a man hits on them. I went downstairs my office building to get lunch. I am waiting by the elevator to go back up my office with my lunch in hand. There were a few people waiting there as well. This man standing next to me had his coat on, he was coming in from outside and I am only in my blouse cause I'm just going from one floor to another one. Suddenly I feel this cold wind hitting me and I shiver, the man next to me went: Oh poor you you are shivering let me give you my coat ! haha! of course I declined politely and thanked him for his kindness. (one handsome man too geeezzz ) What was I to do? <hello my name is Gaeta I am single> ? Well, since he was handsome and he is clearly a gentleman, why didn't you accept his kindness and converse with him a little? If he had an interest in you beyond being a gentleman, he would have conversed at least and maybe at some point, asked for your number. You didn't have anything to lose. You may have just missed an opportunity for a possible date.
Author Gaeta Posted March 23, 2015 Author Posted March 23, 2015 Well, since he was handsome and he is clearly a gentleman, why didn't you accept his kindness and converse with him a little? If he had an interest in you beyond being a gentleman, he would have conversed at least and maybe at some point, asked for your number. You didn't have anything to lose. You may have just missed an opportunity for a possible date. I am sooooo bad at being approached in real life, I even have multiple pages thread about it. In the elevator he asked my floor and took care of selecting it. It was too quick to talk, I am in the lower part of the building. When I got to my floor he even told the man in front of me that was absorbed in his phone conversation: Sir get out of the way the lady is coming out here. Well he knows my floor and we're the only company on the floor.
xxoo Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 I wouldn't take the offered coat, but the ball is in your court to continue the conversation or shut it down. "No, thank you, I really couldn't. So silly of me to run downstairs for lunch without my coat. Do you work in this office?" 3
Diezel Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 If it has a penis, it probably is trying to make a move.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Haha.. I find it funny that you have one thread talking about a guy still being online after you've had three dates with him. Then here you are kicking yourself for not being more clued in to a handsome guy's advances on you. I know in the other thread you mentioned telling Mr. Electronics that you don't have sex right away. But based on you saying "He's not going to tempt me into sex by showing me his cool electronic devices instead of making a move" makes it sound like you were disappointed and secretly turned off he didn't go for it. Is that why you are thinking more about hot guy by the elevator?
Mrin Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Haha.. I find it funny that you have one thread talking about a guy still being online after you've had three dates with him. Then here you are kicking yourself for not being more clued in to a handsome guy's advances on you. Ya I was confused by this as well. What gives?
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