ultimaterob97 Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Recently ive just split up with my first love... I posted about this but recently I've found out my ex is saying horrible things about me saying "she felt pressured in to the relationship" and "she always liked this guy while we was going out". I had feelings around the 6 month mark that she had feelings for this guy, turns out I was right, as soon as we split up she's straight on him... It hurts so much and I'm still in love with her, I treated her right and would hive anything for her, yet she wants the other guy, she "loved" me for a year and now hates me completely, I know she's only 15 but it hurts so much and I don't know whow to deal with this. Please help
AIJ Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Recently ive just split up with my first love... I posted about this but recently I've found out my ex is saying horrible things about me saying "she felt pressured in to the relationship" and "she always liked this guy while we was going out". I had feelings around the 6 month mark that she had feelings for this guy, turns out I was right, as soon as we split up she's straight on him... It hurts so much and I'm still in love with her, I treated her right and would hive anything for her, yet she wants the other guy, she "loved" me for a year and now hates me completely, I know she's only 15 but it hurts so much and I don't know whow to deal with this. Please help Seems like you and I are in very similar situations, however your break up is more recent than mine. It's horrible, but it is what it is, we can't do anything to change the situations we're in so we just have to let it pass and let time do the healing
No Limit Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 She has to make you look bad so people will focus more on you being a bad boyfriend than on her cheating (which I promise you she did). It sucks but it's best to ignore it to avoid drama and giving the the satisfaction of getting a reaction from you.
Author ultimaterob97 Posted March 23, 2015 Author Posted March 23, 2015 Yeah okay I'll just have to suffer the pain I guess, to make it worse she's more willing to do things for him that she would never do for me! and that sounds about right, she made me look bad to everyone I know and making it seem like I was nasty to her!
totenkopf Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 My ex girlfriend has also made me out to be a terrible boyfriend and has even gone as far as saying that she never loved me and that I was ugly and said that I had mental health issues even though she would regularly leave her child in my care. In my case I have seen what a nasty, lying and manipulative little creature she is I think it seems this is the case with your ex to some degree also.
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