chelseamoon Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Hi guys need yer advice because maybe im the childish cow. My ex broke up with me 5 months ago but we decided to love together due to bills and the fact we both hace a child each from prev who are close. Alls been goin ok took a while as i was hearrbroken but now im getting there. The PROBLEM she foreign and in her country its manners to remove shoes when in home. Me im irish i dont do. So since she broke up she decided to move her and child downstairs. All of a sudden she started to say me and my child must remove our shoes when in her part of house. Something that angers me as she didnt ask of us before and if i say it was my home first (as it was she moved in with me) then shes like i dont care i dont wanr shoes on my carpet. I say i will remove them.if in your room that il respect but shes like no. She says upstairs mine, downstairs hers. Although i never stop her or her child going upstairs as thats childish. What do i do. Do i just take dem off for the sake of not arguing and get my daughter in habit too help its causing fights!!! Ty
deathandtaxes Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 What do you do? find somebody else to share a house with. Find a proper roommate, not an ex. Problem solved.
preraph Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 You got no business living with your ex. If she's going to tell you to take off your shoes, then you two need to firmly divide up the territory and have no common areas and she keeps her and her kids there and you don't even have to see her. My guess you have to share a kitchen, though. So she can't tell you what to do there. Just don't go into her area and don't let them come into hers and if i were you I'd schedule cooking times where you each did that at different times in the kitchen and cleaned up your own messes.
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