AIJ Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 So after 2 weeks of no contact, my ex decided to follow me on Twitter AGAIN. She followed me 2 weeks ago, then unfollowed 2 hours later after I didn't follow back. About 5 minutes after following me, she changed her Twitter header picture (which is kind of like a background picture for your profile, for those that aren't really up to scratch with Twitter) to a picture of her and her new boyfriend in her bed, cuddled up. Why? What's the need? Why can't she just leave me alone and stop prodding constantly, trying to make me jealous or whatever? You're in a new relationship, so **** off and stop monitoring my life. Cunt.
Jonp219 Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Block her bro and never look back. That's mighty low of her to do. That fact that she would do something like that shows that she's with that dude mainly to piss you off. 1
Author AIJ Posted March 22, 2015 Author Posted March 22, 2015 Block her bro and never look back. That's mighty low of her to do. Thing is, if I block her now it's giving her a reaction. So I'm just gonna let it go, not follow her back, and wait for her to eventually stop monitoring my life. What a bitch.
Simon Phoenix Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Thing is, if I block her now it's giving her a reaction. So I'm just gonna let it go, not follow her back, and wait for her to eventually stop monitoring my life. What a bitch. Dude, you need to stop worrying about the image you are projecting to her. This post of yours I just quoted is the wrong mentality. Who cares how you look to your ex? Your state of mind is much more important than that. It's obvious this upset you, so why in the hell wouldn't you block? Don't rationalize dumb -- just block. 1
smellysocksuni Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Exactly; if you block her it gives her a reaction. Just totally ignore it and get on with whatever you're doing.
BlackbirdSong Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Deactivate Twitter. It's annoying anyways. 3
Simon Phoenix Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Exactly; if you block her it gives her a reaction. Just totally ignore it and get on with whatever you're doing. Once again, wrong mentality. You're putting on a front with this mindset. 1
Jonp219 Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Exactly; if you block her it gives her a reaction. Just totally ignore it and get on with whatever you're doing. How can you totally ignore something like that? If I were in his shoes this completely destroys any hope I may have of reconciliation with this person in the future. Block her ass man, who cares what she thinks. Taht dude is going to dump her in a month or 2 anyway, jokes on her. 1
dyna85 Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Wow. Your ex is very insensitive to have done this. I also feel really bad for the guy she is with, because clearly she's using him to try to get to you. Your best bet is to stop visiting her twitter page. Ignorance is bliss sometimes. She baited you with the follow, and you visited her page? Sounds like she knows just the right button to push.... 2
Methodical Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 My initial response was the same, ignore her immaturity, but after thinking about it more, wouldn't blocking her disable her ability to monitor your twitter activity? If so, block and move on. 2
Author AIJ Posted March 22, 2015 Author Posted March 22, 2015 Wow. Your ex is very insensitive to have done this. I also feel really bad for the guy she is with, because clearly she's using him to try to get to you. Your best bet is to stop visiting her twitter page. Ignorance is bliss sometimes. She baited you with the follow, and you visited her page? Sounds like she knows just the right button to push.... Just got back from work hence the late reply. No I didn't visit her page, I just went on to my followers, and you can see their Twitter header picture on there. I actually have an add-on installed on my laptop so whenever her Twitter name is in the URL, it redirects me back to the Twitter home page. This really was through no fault of my own. I've also deleted Twitter from my phone just so I can't check it on there. This has honestly made me so angry I cannot believe the way some girls think. Like I'd KIND OF understand if I ended it with her, but she ended it with me, shouldn't she just forget about me and move on?
kendahke Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Thing is, if I block her now it's giving her a reaction. So I'm just gonna let it go, not follow her back, and wait for her to eventually stop monitoring my life. What a bitch. No, I think it's giving you a trigger to keep all this hatred aimed at her. Blocking her effectively puts her out of your sphere--not doing it keeps her firmly in your scope. Why does it matter what she thinks, what kind of a reaction she may or may not get from it? If you don't want her to monitor your life, then act like it. Why do you care how she takes it? What she thinks should not matter.
dyna85 Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 Just got back from work hence the late reply. No I didn't visit her page, I just went on to my followers, and you can see their Twitter header picture on there. I actually have an add-on installed on my laptop so whenever her Twitter name is in the URL, it redirects me back to the Twitter home page. This really was through no fault of my own. I've also deleted Twitter from my phone just so I can't check it on there. This has honestly made me so angry I cannot believe the way some girls think. Like I'd KIND OF understand if I ended it with her, but she ended it with me, shouldn't she just forget about me and move on? Well, anything you can do to avoid ever seeing her page, I would do that. She is truly something to be doing this. I don't get it. Honestly. It's like na49's ex, posting pics of herself and the new guy on FB. There's a sensitivity chip missing, amongst other underlying issues.
Author AIJ Posted March 22, 2015 Author Posted March 22, 2015 No, I think it's giving you a trigger to keep all this hatred aimed at her. Blocking her effectively puts her out of your sphere--not doing it keeps her firmly in your scope. Why does it matter what she thinks, what kind of a reaction she may or may not get from it? If you don't want her to monitor your life, then act like it. Why do you care how she takes it? What she thinks should not matter. Fair shout, just gonna block her!
kendahke Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 What she did was hitting you where she knew it would do the most damage--and that speaks of contempt. Those are the kinds of people you don't want in your life and you don't want them knowing anything about yours. If they can't break up and stay away quietly, you have to make sure that any door back to you is nailed shut because they aren't about to respect that.
Author AIJ Posted March 22, 2015 Author Posted March 22, 2015 What she did was hitting you where she knew it would do the most damage--and that speaks of contempt. Those are the kinds of people you don't want in your life and you don't want them knowing anything about yours. If they can't break up and stay away quietly, you have to make sure that any door back to you is nailed shut because they aren't about to respect that. Yeah went ahead and blocked her. She literally has no way of contacting other than turning up at my house, and considering it's quite a journey I don't think she'll be doing that any time soon
spiderowl Posted March 22, 2015 Posted March 22, 2015 It is a very strange thing to do. If she is not naturally vindictive then it seems she is trying to attract your attention. It is not positive in any way though because she is not indicating she is free and interested in you. Sorry she's done this. You are the better man.
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