rmo2380 Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 Well lets see, I have my woman of 3 yrs tell me it was over. and i did whats lots of people would do beg her and I pushed her away. I havent talked to her however in a week and its still killing me. she broke up with me because she didnt know if i was the right guy for her. i dont wanna let go but should i try to lose hope or what? or try dating other folks. i mean i dont know what to do, i cant seem to get back up after she knocked me down. i love this woman very much and i just hurt so bad. any advice.
Fallen_Angel Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 It's been three years. You can't expect your feelings to disappear overnight. This girl has been a significant part of your life for some time, and now you have to deal with the abrupt shock of it being over. (Sheesh, I hate that word.) I myself am negotiating the waters of no contact and it is NOT easy. I used to talk to my ex every single day, so to now suddenly try to go days without talking to him is extremely difficult. However, I need to prove to him that I am strong enough to go on without him, and you have to do the same. There's nothing wrong with hoping she'll come back to you...but you can't let hope stand in the way of your recovery. Hope can't be the only reason you get out of bed in the morning. Coming to this board has helped me a lot. Sometimes I feel like I'm all alone but I'm definitely not, as there are so many people out there who feel equally as bereft. You WILL get back up again, but it WILL take time. Trust me, I'm very impatient and wish I could fast forward to being over my ex. Be strong. We're all here for you.
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