dreamcatcher04017 Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 I have known since I was nineteen years old and to this day I still love him dissipate the fact he broke my heart. I have given him my heart, when he himself had nothing to offer me. But the inevitable happened. He broke up with me, even though I stood by him when he wasn't going to school,his drugs, his rehab , not having a car. It was only until that when things were starting to get better on his part that he started to stray away. He went back to school, got a new car, stayed sober and just broke up with me. He claims it's because he's shallow and that although I have good qualities mine don't fit his standards. If we were to work, I would have to agree to his conditions. Me knowing that there would be a possibility that we won't work, the day that he feels he not in love he will leave. I declined, because if a person really loves you they would do anything to make you happy. Never forget your birthday even though it's the same as your own. Lets just say, everything you could think of I have done for him. Can anyone give me any advice, on how to overcome this person and pain. Should I move? I just miss him so much even though he has caused me so much pain, I think it's because he's my first love. My first everything.... I would really appreciate any type of opinions and advice. Thanks. Be Kind to One Another Dream Big.
OneBigIdgit Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Wow. While it reads like you should consider yourself lucky that you won't be tied for life to him, all of us here know the pain you are going through. When I type out the issues that threw up red flags to my current ex, anyone sane would wonder why I would ever consider taking her back and why I don't consider myself lucky to be free and her being someone elses problem. The catch to that, even with all of the issues, she added a huge amount of NICE to my life. If he does that for you, then I hate that you are going to go through this. If you want him back, go to instant No Contact and hope that he'll realize what he missed and will give you a chance to decide later in life. You'll work on yourself and in months you will no longer be thinking about him. That's when he'll try to come back, hopefully a partner with much more potential than he has shown up to this point. Good Luck and I hope your pain and despair ease quickly. Find a routine that makes your mind so busy that your time thinking of him is limited.
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