smitty373 Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 My ex girlfriend was dating a seperated guy when we first met. She had dated him aparently for three years. Now when we started dating it was literally a week after that. Now during our five year relationship we had a little girl together. My ex has another 8 year old from a previous relationship. Everything was going fine the first three years of our relationship. Or so i thought. Well two years ago on Christmas eve we got in a huge arguement and i left. She stated that she was losing feelings for me and she wasn't sure if we should continue on. From here i apparently convinced her to work on things and give it another shot. Well then about 10 months later she stated that she was not happy in the relationship and broke up with me. However, not even a week went by and she went back to her ex. I asked her about it and she said that she wasnt dating him or anyone else. Well she did in fact go back to him. She told me to move on and doesnt want to give me fase hope. Now during the last two months she had been texting and calling her ex. Now my question is can i get her back? Or is this a lost cause? She stated that there was no hope and im quickly getting frustrated.
salparadise Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Well she did in fact go back to him. She told me to move on and doesnt want to give me fase hope. Now during the last two months she had been texting and calling her ex. Now my question is can i get her back? Or is this a lost cause? She stated that there was no hope and im quickly getting frustrated. No hope, sorry. So she's been back with the ex a year and a half or so and you still haven't accepted that she's gone? The only thing that's going to feel better is to actually move on.
MLAZ1990 Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Don't try and get her back! I know it may sound corky, But you deserve to be with someone that wants to be with you!
preraph Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 No. She's told you more than once it's over. You can't force someone to love you or be with you. If she doesn't love you, then it should be obvious, though hurtful certainly, that she is not the right woman for you. You thought she was but you were wrong. The right woman will love you back. Go find her and put this one totally behind you. Good luck.
No Limit Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Get a paternity test for 'your' girl. I know with your heartbreak you have other things in mind and this is indeed a terrible can of worms to open but it will save you from paying a lot of money. Not only your relationship is a lost cause, your partner herself is a lost cause. It's just sad that this women has 2 kids.
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