I4givehim Posted March 21, 2015 Share Posted March 21, 2015 Hello everyone, I am trying to forgive my husband for him cheating on me for the past year. We are going to counseling in hope's to mend things. Any suggestions for me to stop thinking about what he did to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Jimmyjackson Posted March 21, 2015 Share Posted March 21, 2015 If you can forgive and forget then fair play to you, but I know I couldn't. My ex left me for some other guy, and although she didn't cheat on me I would still question whether I could trust her again, so I can't imagine how difficult it must feel for you. If you want to forget about it then all you can do is try not to think about it, and convince yourself he won't cheat again. For me personally though, if my future wife had been cheating on me, in the arms of another man I would feel disgusted at the thought and it would be on my mind that much I wouldn't be able to live with it. Link to post Share on other sites
KBarletta Posted March 21, 2015 Share Posted March 21, 2015 Hello everyone, I am trying to forgive my husband for him cheating on me for the past year. We are going to counseling in hope's to mend things. Any suggestions for me to stop thinking about what he did to me. You're already going to counseling, so that is a good first step. Transparency and completely open communication is important in rebuilding trust, so I'd recommend working very hard at that, in and out of counseling. Take it slow - don't expect it to happen overnight. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author I4givehim Posted March 21, 2015 Author Share Posted March 21, 2015 Thank you. I don't know what I am doing. One minute I want to work on our marriage and the next minute I want a divorce. I keep praying for an answer. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted March 21, 2015 Share Posted March 21, 2015 The fastest way to heal is to leave! :-) 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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