Fancy a girl at work, not sure if she is interested or not...help?

[mrmash]

Heres the deal, I work in retail and have been working there for about 1/2 months now like everyone else because the store has not long opened. In no time at all I started getting to know people and what not at work and started to this girl I now refer to as "N" I speak to her everytime she is in Friday/Saturday/Sunday and if I don't "initate" conversation she does. While I'm working I have noticed that when I'm not "blatenly" looking she is standing over where she is and looking at me. Now I'm not one to toot my own horn and I aint great looking or anything, I think the totally opposite I think Im downright ugly. I recently got into trouble at work because I'm spotted talking to her quite a large amount. I have spent numerous lunch's/dinners with her and she always asks me what time my dinner is and what not. Now I don't know if she is single or not, but I had the confidence on one dinner to ask her if she wanted to go out for a meal the week and she said that she wasnt sure what time because she was going out elsewhere but would let me know.

 

Im not sure if she forgot to tell me conveiniently or accidently but I personally forgot myself. Anyway she was going on holiday in a weeks time, but thats besides the point, anyway I had a long day at work and was going out for a drink after, I asked her if she wanted to go and she said she wanted to go home and get changed first. So I thought that was cool, anyway I myself thought that was a straight out no so I didnt bother going. I saw her the week after and again neither of us said anything because either she didnt want to bring it up, personally again I forgot.

 

She's gone on holiday now and has been for 1 week and will be back next week. Now I'm not sure what to do now, I like her alot, of which I know about her. Anyway I'm unsure of what I should do next, what course of action I should take next. Any advice you can give me would be great.

 

The Mash

[Marshbear]

Be direct. if a women likes you she will usually let you know. If you want to know ask her. If you are afraid of the answer then don't and always wonder.

I sure fire way is to talk about a g/f. If she acts jealous then she likes you.

 

I think she doesn't want to go there and is trying to tell you she isn't interested by not meeting up. You need to suck it up and be confident and walk up to her and just ask her out (straight up). If your friendship ends then she wasn't much of a friend to start with. It is hard to be friends when one person has feelings. Just ask and find out for sure.....