GTR King Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 (edited) Been on 4 dates.... In 2 months All dates want well 5th date most probably Sunday & 6th date sun 29th..... We kissed on 4th date & she texts me at least once every day & I text 1st few times a week.... She said she likes me allot etc..... So when should I ask her to be my g.f I really like this girl allot.... Edited March 20, 2015 by GTR King
preraph Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Well, you're just now kissing. Why not enjoy that for a few more dates and then see how it's going and then ask her if she wants to be exclusive and be your girlfriend. Four dates is a little early, but you're headed in the right direction. You need to know her a little better or you might get into something you wish you hadn't. People let their guard down the longer you date them and it takes a while to really see who they are.
adiamond Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 (If I was you) I would go on the date this Sunday and kiss her and hold her hand throughout the date. If she responds well, ask her to be your gf at the end of the date. Then, I would up the dates to 2x a week and continue to be sweet to her.
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 Thanks for advice I do like her.... She don't use her phone much but always accept my dates & likes to seee me.... When we see each other we talk loads & laugh quite a bit.. Last date was last wed (4th date) She is a shy person....
fitnessfan365 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Dude, if you're in regular contact with her you should be planning dates with her. My question is, why have you only had four dates in eight weeks? Also, waiting eight weeks to kiss a girl, is just way too damn long. As I've said before, you need to stop being in "text-ships" with women and actually get them out on dates with you.
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 I have got a date this Sunday (Maybe) & date on the 29th we sorted it out on our last date....
fitnessfan365 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Still confused by this situation. 1) You text with her regularly. 2) You say you like her enough to be your GF Yet you only had four dates in eight weeks. Why weren't you asking her out regularly? Just trying to understand your mindset of wanting text with a girl all the time but not ask her out.
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 We were both busy & seeing each other more now... Just taking things slow....
fitnessfan365 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 We were both busy & seeing each other more now... Just taking things slow.... Haha.. Man there is taking things slow, and there is taking things at molasses speed. If a woman likes you, she makes time. For example, one of the women I'm seeing now has to be up @ 5am for work, and doesn't get home until 7:30 at night, Yet she still gets together with me @ 9pm just to spend time with me. So when a woman says that she is "too busy" she really isn't that into you. That's why I'd proceed with caution on this one. Since you just had your first kiss, I'd recommend just going out with her more regularly and see how the dates go.
Author GTR King Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 Thanks mate I will date her more & see where things go but looks all good 1
rester Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Sorry to say, but based on a quick skim of your other two recent threads, I don't think this girl is very interested in you. I'd be very cautious moving forward and definitely wouldn't be asking her to be your girlfriend. You've already come across as a bit needy and insecure and it sounds like she's not very interested.
Author GTR King Posted March 21, 2015 Author Posted March 21, 2015 Thanks for advice.... Will see wot happens all Sorted now
Jame22 Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Don't ask her. If she wants to be your girlfriend she'll be the one to ask. Just focus on taking her on dates and having fun. 1
emi Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Don't ask her. If she wants to be your girlfriend she'll be the one to ask. Just focus on taking her on dates and having fun. :lmao::lmao: She is shy
xtopher65 Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 Never ask the girl about being in a relationship. Let her initiate.
todreaminblue Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 i think you already know what to do ...you seem sure enough from reading your replies....so do that...follow your heart....and i wish you well....deb
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