Jet96 Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 (edited) It just doesn't make sense why do girls want to go through this? When these @ssholes break thier heart and play with there feelings they wanna run to a nice guy and cry to them why guys do this and why aren't they're nice guys that wont chaet and will treat them right .BUT for some reason they WON'T go out with them(it makes me wanna cry wondering will it be like this in the future) but will go for another @sshole who will break there heart just like the last one . why dont they look with there eys but not with there heart . why is this ? Edited March 20, 2015 by Jet96 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 The best thing to do when you find yourself on the receiving end of a teary broken hearted girl that you have a crush on is to be honest and tell her to go on home until she's ready to move on and is past her heartbreak, after which you'd be more than happy to take her on a real date. To hang around as if you are "just her friend" is dishonest. She is trusting you like a brother, and meanwhile you're full of resentment about that but it's your own fault if you haven't asked her out on a real date or let her know you have romantic feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jet96 Posted March 20, 2015 Author Share Posted March 20, 2015 The best thing to do when you find yourself on the receiving end of a teary broken hearted girl that you have a crush on is to be honest and tell her to go on home until she's ready to move on and is past her heartbreak, after which you'd be more than happy to take her on a real date. To hang around as if you are "just her friend" is dishonest. She is trusting you like a brother, and meanwhile you're full of resentment about that but it's your own fault if you haven't asked her out on a real date or let her know you have romantic feelings. I have but theu all claim they dont like me in that way Link to post Share on other sites
fitnessfan365 Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 The reason why I HATE "nice guys" is because they never accept responsibility for their actions. They always have excuses to make and someone else to blame. The honest truth OP, YOU are the one to blame for your situation. Women want to date strong confident men they can feel safe with. Not weak feminine men that actually feel like crying. This may sound harsh, but it's the truth. If you want to do better with women, you need to start acting like a man and change your behavior. 1) Get into shape and work on becoming more physically attractive. 2) Get some hobbies to keep you busy and make you more indifferent to women 3) Stop being at a woman's beck and call. It's your choice to be a crying shoulder and a therapist. Have a backbone and tell her that you're not interested. 4) Be more aggressive with women and go after what you want. If you see a woman you're attracted to, walk up and talk to her. Get her number. Ask her out. Don't sit there and stare. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jet96 Posted March 20, 2015 Author Share Posted March 20, 2015 The reason why I HATE "nice guys" is because they never accept responsibility for their actions. They always have excuses to make and someone else to blame. The honest truth OP, YOU are the one to blame for your situation. Women want to date strong confident men they can feel safe with. Not weak feminine men that actually feel like crying. This may sound harsh, but it's the truth. If you want to do better with women, you need to start acting like a man and change your behavior. 1) Get into shape and work on becoming more physically attractive. 2) Get some hobbies to keep you busy and make you more indifferent to women 3) Stop being at a woman's beck and call. It's your choice to be a crying shoulder and a therapist. Have a backbone and tell her that you're not interested. 4) Be more aggressive with women and go after what you want. If you see a woman you're attracted to, walk up and talk to her. Get her number. Ask her out. Don't sit there and stare. you hate nice guys but you want a guy who will break your heart in a million peices btw i have tried they just dont like me in that way. Link to post Share on other sites
ManyDissapoint Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 you hate nice guys but you want a guy who will break your heart in a million peices btw i have tried they just dont like me in that way. I think he's a dude, dude. Link to post Share on other sites
fitnessfan365 Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 (edited) you hate nice guys but you want a guy who will break your heart in a million peices btw i have tried they just dont like me in that way. Haha.. I am a guy. Do you honestly think a woman would be that blunt and harsh with you? Most women are polite by nature and will try to give you some nice response about how "the right woman is out there", etc.. But as I said, the cold hard truth, is that it's YOUR BEHAVIOR that has you where you are. I am a gentleman, and I respect women. But the reason why I do so well with them is because I actually act like a man and take what I want with confidence. Also, I'm indifferent to rejection. If one woman doesn't like me, it's only a matter of time until I have another one out on a date with me. Women like men that aren't needy and that aren't totally reliant on them for happiness. You need to be secure in your own life and purpose. The fact that so much of your identity is wrapped up in getting a woman to like you, is why you're repelling them. Edited March 20, 2015 by fitnessfan365 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 I have but theu all claim they dont like me in that way Well, then you can't date them. That's the way it is. But you shouldn't hang around letting them cry on your shoulder if you're crushing on them either. It's simply not a match. That one's not attracted to you. Someone will be sometime, though. Stop accepting their scraps and send them packing and if nothing else they'll gain a little respect for you because you refused to be their doormat. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 I always ended up with the "nice guy". They ended up breaking my heart anyway. There's no guarantee that someone won't hurt me. Link to post Share on other sites
SmartDude Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 It just doesn't make sense why do girls want to go through this? When these @ssholes break thier heart and play with there feelings they wanna run to a nice guy and cry to them why guys do this and why aren't they're nice guys that wont chaet and will treat them right .BUT for some reason they WON'T go out with them(it makes me wanna cry wondering will it be like this in the future) but will go for another @sshole who will break there heart just like the last one . why dont they look with there eys but not with there heart . why is this ? Why? It is because some women would rather feel something than nothing, even if it is bad for them in the long run. Really "hot" dudes who are muscular and sexual, turn women on in a primal way(one example). She knows its bad for her, its killing her, but she does it anyway. And indeed it may be an improvement over domestic married hell to a man who is devoid of any feelings at all but is a "great father". Women in that state of mind are in kind of a "damned if you do damned if you don't" situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted March 20, 2015 Share Posted March 20, 2015 Because guys like that spark no romantic interest, you're a glorified female friend...if not something a bit worse. Women need to "feel" a certain way around a man, if not be physically or sexually attracted. Otherwise you're just kind of there and off her radar. If a guy breaks her heart it's because it was someone she had feelings for or had interest, it's that simple for her. And women tend to in average tolerate a lot if abuse because they think they can change these men or they see potential..and on top of that they tend to have insecurity issues. So it's women often times not knowing how to be treated any better than they are, and they may not realize that's possible. It doesn't matter to them that you think you're a better catch or all around guy if you can't spark interest...women give men attention that they are interested in and maybe male friends, otherwise you'll just be invisible. They don't have that scope of awareness that the average men have in just about every woman, unless she's desperate. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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