Donate Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Sooner of later we are all bound to meet the 'Almost Perfect' person....which one of these is the highest on your 'Deal Breaker' list? Love - [you live kinda like brother and sister, still have sex but the emotional love is really not there. Everything else is perfect, love to travel together, go to concerts, laugh and talk she/he does their thing around the house to perfection] Looks - [your partner is not the most attractive, in fact they are kinda ugly, however everything else is perfect] Sex - [meals cooked, cloths washed and ironed, laugh and talk, everything is fantastic, except there is no sex] Cleanliness - [your partner is a fantastic lover, can cook and and caring and affectionate, however they stink and hate to bathe] Age - [a match made in heaven, everything is perfect from A-Z except your partner is so old/young that you feel embarrassed around family and friends with them] Race - [you get along fantastically, see eye to eye on just about everything, talk, laugh and have great sex, think about each other day and night except your of different races and your family hates it]
TrevorDia Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Cleanliness. I'm sorry, but I'm a very clean person. If you aren't having a shower every day, or every TWO day at the very very latest, please stay away from me. Go au naturale with the hair if you want, just don't skimp out when it comes to hygiene.
dragon_fly_7 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Cleanliness It would be a total deal-breaker if he was stinking so badly and refused to take a shower. Poor hygiene....eewww
seekingpeaceinlove Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Cleanliness. IMO, you are not a "fantastic lover" if you have poor hygiene. I would not be able to get intimate with you in any way if you stink, are dirty, etc. This includes cuddling and kissing. Won't happen. 1
blackcat777 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 A lack of strength of character is a dealbreaker for me. A liar, someone with no boundaries, a passive-aggressive people pleaser. Also, lack of cleanliness can spill over into a lack of self-respect, which would be an issue. Slightly chaotic space because you're busy is one thing... not showering for three days is something different. Age and race can be navigated if both partners are willing. Other people's unsolicited opinions suck, but the larger lesson in that experience is, that's life. You can never make everyone happy, and you shouldn't engage in intimate relationships for the sake of making other people happy.
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