Reysa09 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Me and my ex boyfriend are trying to work things out. We've already had a long distance relationship ( im in SC, hes in NC) since last summer. We broke up because of trust issues (still intimate while broken up) and now we're trying to work things out. We both love eachother but we're trying to build a stronger foundation before we jump into another relationship. He's getting out the military next month and will be moving back 'home' to south Carolina. About 45 minutes from where I live. He'll be here all summer and then hes leaving for motorcycle school in Orlando in August. He says he can be loyal to me and I know I can be loyal to him but 2 years is a long time. Orlando is about 6 hours from here. I know I sound insecure when I say this but, theres a lot of beautiful women in Florida. He'll be home for holidays and stuff and Ill go visit every few months but still....Like I said we were already in a long distance relationship but he was only an hour and a half away, now hes coming HOME (YAY) ...I think this summer we can strengthen our bond but when he leaves idk what to do...Does anyone think a long distance relationship of 2 years will work ?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 No you need to make shared living arrangements most likely
Author Reysa09 Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 I cant move to Florida...He's staying on campus anyway...
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 I wouldn't do it. If you don't cheat, he might. 2 years is a really long time, my sister and her BF couldn't do 3-4 months.
Buddhist Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Not a chance in hell, especially considering that the relationship is already weakened by a previous bad experience and you are still trying to save it. Even if you guys were planning a wedding together, 2yrs? I still think the odds are against it.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 I don't think the odds are good here. Previous trust problems are more than likely going to creep back up. There isn't a solid foundation to sustain two years of long-distance, in my opinion.
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