confusedlamb Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 Girl:Text me tomorrow and let me know what your plans are. I have class and have some errands to run. Goodnight babe... And don't tell me to not worry about you. Like shut up. I miss you. Goodnight Me: I'd rather you not worry about that. And alrighty babe I will. Nighty night, have sweet dreams Miss you too Me: Hey babe Im going to get lunch with my cousins and maybe go see a movie with them. I'm free after 7 if you want to get together
d0nnivain Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 Why would it be bad? It's a little long for a text message IMO but I'm not a text-er. She is since she specified that method of communication.
Author confusedlamb Posted March 19, 2015 Author Posted March 19, 2015 Why would it be bad? It's a little long for a text message IMO but I'm not a text-er. She is since she specified that method of communication. I didn't know if she would get mad because I told her two seperate times to not worry about neglecting me because ai know she's very busy. She hasn't responded to my last text either.
d0nnivain Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 From your initial post I had no idea that she was worried she is neglecting you. Honestly I though she meant she was worried about you getting home safe because the weather was bad or you had been drinking or were tired. You need to be specific in your communications. That said, you trying to put her mind at ease is a nice thing. 1
fitnessfan365 Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 The one mistake that I see is you trying to make plans last minute. In the beginning, the guy has to contact the woman to ask her out. So I wait 2-3 days after the last date, and then call or text her (whichever she prefers). You chat a bit, catch up, and then ask when she's free. You agree on a day/time and then get off the phone. Talk to her again on the date. After she gets more invested, she'll initiate communication a bit more. When she does, ask when she's free and the date frequency increases naturally. But you're still making plans in advance and not chasing after her day of or the night before.
Author confusedlamb Posted March 19, 2015 Author Posted March 19, 2015 The one mistake that I see is you trying to make plans last minute. In the beginning, the guy has to contact the woman to ask her out. So I wait 2-3 days after the last date, and then call or text her (whichever she prefers). You chat a bit, catch up, and then ask when she's free. You agree on a day/time and then get off the phone. Talk to her again on the date. After she gets more invested, she'll initiate communication a bit more. When she does, ask when she's free and the date frequency increases naturally. But you're still making plans in advance and not chasing after her day of or the night before. We already have a long history and she got mad at me last night accusing me of only hanging out with her for sex. And then I thought it ended on a nice note.
kendahke Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 We already have a long history and she got mad at me last night accusing me of only hanging out with her for sex. And then I thought it ended on a nice note. Are you only hanging out with her for sex? She couldn't go to the movies with you and your cousins? What times do your dates usually start? Late in the evening?
Gary S Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 It's easier to negotiate a date on a phone call. Text is a poor form of communication.
Author confusedlamb Posted March 19, 2015 Author Posted March 19, 2015 Are you only hanging out with her for sex? She couldn't go to the movies with you and your cousins? What times do your dates usually start? Late in the evening? Yes always late in the evening, and no she told me last night she has class and errands to run.
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