asdf24 Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 (edited) So I guess you could call me the neglectful kind of ******* boyfriend. me and my girlfriend had plans to move out she was throwing out everything for me her family was going to cut her off. She backed out last minute even though I gave her numerous times to back out before this hut she insisted. She was always saying I don't care was very emotional and crazy about me. She always said she was going to make a lot of money in the future marry someone rich when I first met her. I had to talk to her about some important stuff coming up (background investigator talking to her, becoming a cop) a month after breakup I was completley non confrontational. She was giving me attitude and looked very emotional. I apologized for how things ended just told her I was really stressed in the academy. She brought up everything I did wrong in the relationship saying she felt used and worthless. I apologized and even asked if we can make things work again. she went on to tell me all her friends hate me etc .. she said 'this might sound shallow but I want to live a luxury and upper class life style and I'm sorry but a cop doesn't do it' didn't even notice that comment till a couple days later. Can't believe in disregarded it. No idea how you could be so emotional about someone and say you love and then just say that and mean it. This chick is 18 and I'm going to be making close to 6 figures my figures my first year with overtime. Thi k that is pretty solid. make more than her parents for sure. Edited March 19, 2015 by asdf24
Michelle ma Belle Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 So I guess you could call me the neglectful kind of ******* boyfriend. me and my girlfriend had plans to move out she was throwing out everything for me her family was going to cut her off. She backed out last minute even though I gave her numerous times to back out before this hut she insisted. She was always saying I don't care was very emotional and crazy about me. She always said she was going to make a lot of money in the future marry someone rich when I first met her. I had to talk to her about some important stuff coming up (background investigator talking to her, becoming a cop) a month after breakup I was completley non confrontational. She was giving me attitude and looked very emotional. I apologized for how things ended just told her I was really stressed in the academy. She brought up everything I did wrong in the relationship saying she felt used and worthless. I apologized and even asked if we can make things work again. she went on to tell me all her friends hate me etc .. she said 'this might sound shallow but I want to live a luxury and upper class life style and I'm sorry but a cop doesn't do it' didn't even notice that comment till a couple days later. Can't believe in disregarded it. No idea how you could be so emotional about someone and say you love and then just say that and mean it. This chick is 18 and I'm going to be making close to 6 figures my figures my first year with overtime. Thi k that is pretty solid. make more than her parents for sure. I think this says it all I'm afraid.
Author asdf24 Posted March 19, 2015 Author Posted March 19, 2015 Out of all my relationships I actually talked to my old man about this one. He said the same thing. She was afraid, pussied out and tried to justify it by any means. That comment really got to me though. Makes me feel lower class or something. I don't know if she meant it or not. Maybe a hey you couldn't handle me anyways. Which side would you lean towards?
elaine567 Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 I guess she meant it, some teenage girls are all about money, status and celebrity and a cop is never going to be any big deal in that world. She has ambition to live a luxurious upper class life, how realistic that ambition is I dont know. Some are so focussed they make it and others get bitter and twisted when they don't and others just grow up to accept their lot. Give her her due, she is consistent, she told you from day one what she really wanted... She always said she was going to make a lot of money in the future marry someone rich when I first met her.
Author asdf24 Posted March 19, 2015 Author Posted March 19, 2015 The thing is though I told her I'm not trying to marry her. Prior to this she was telling me she would switch her major she would take a couple semesters off whatever it took. While she did say that in the beginning she did say a lot of other stupid ****. Her parents might have the VA to pay for her college but I make more than her parents. Don't understand that. If you look at the comment above. Do you think she got scared and just tried to justify it?
elaine567 Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 The thing is though I told her I'm not trying to marry her. Prior to this she was telling me she would switch her major she would take a couple semesters off whatever it took. While she did say that in the beginning she did say a lot of other stupid ****. Her parents might have the VA to pay for her college but I make more than her parents. Don't understand that. If you look at the comment above. Do you think she got scared and just tried to justify it? She brought up everything I did wrong in the relationship saying she felt used and worthless. - this may also have something to do with it and you did say you were neglectful too. So faced with parental opposition and you not exactly being supportive, loving and caring then what else was she going to do but end it? Fighting for your man, is a great cause only if he is right there beside you all the way. I guess she, in the face of the battle, looked around and you were nowhere in sight. She was prepared to give you everything, but you weren't, so no wonder she was giving you attitude as she was no doubt very hurt and disappointed in you too.
Author asdf24 Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 She also said her friends were saying I'm full of myself and arrogant was she just trying kill my ego with this or something.
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